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Using my Grandma's name

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londonloves · 20/06/2017 20:46

Hi all
If my baby (25 weeks at the mo!) is a girl, we really want to use my late Grandma's name which was Alma. I also love the name Rose but I'm not sure how to pair it... I feel like Alma Rose flows better, but Rose is maybe a better first name for a little girl? Does Rose Alma work? (I expect we might use Rosie as a nickname either way)

Also there was a famous violinist in the war called Alma Rose with an accent on the 'e' of Rose - she was Jewish and a captive in auschwitz who directed an orchestra to entertain the nazi captives. Is it weird to use this, or is the link obscure enough?

Or do we use a different first name and keep Alma as a middle name, and save Rose for if we have another girl?! Surname is three syllables so don't want to use very long names.

Thoughts please!

( and please don't be mean about Alma if you don't like it, my grandma was an awesome lady and I really love the name)
Thanks folks xx

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MollyHuaCha · 20/06/2017 23:02

Alma is lovely. The only other person I've known of with this name is the musical prodigy Alma Deutscher who must be around 12 now. Rose is lovely too.

londonloves · 20/06/2017 23:40

Thanks everyone for all the lovely comments. I had a great auntie Rose who was a nurse
in the war so whichever way around she will be named after two epic ladies! I am leaning towards the Alma Rose order definitely.

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Bellaposy · 21/06/2017 06:42

Alma Rose is beautiful!

littlemissM92 · 21/06/2017 07:12

Alma rose definitely sounds better how do you feel about double barrelled names then she would be called both always?

blahthisistoohard · 21/06/2017 07:50

Alma Rose flows really nicely and is the better option imo. Alma is more unusual and I think would really suit a little girl as well as an adult.

Even if you chose another name to save Rose for next time, I think whatever name you chose Rose would always flow better as a middle name, it just really seems to flow well as a middle name no matter what you pair it with!

blahthisistoohard · 21/06/2017 07:51

Oh and the link to Auschwitz- no way on earth anyone is going to make that link!

londonloves · 21/06/2017 09:58

I have thought about double barrelling but I'm not crazy about hyphenation, not sure why I thin perhaps because -Rose and -May names are super popular these days. Can I double barrel without the hyphen or is that a bit naff?

And thanks again for all the lovely comments. Alma is great isn't it?! My grandma would be so chuffed. It will help to make up for how sad I am that she will never meet her great grandchild.

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DarthMaiden · 21/06/2017 18:04

Alma is lovely and unusual.

It's also incredibly special and personal to you.

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imip · 21/06/2017 18:07

Alma Rose is a beautiful name. I know 2 Alma's. One very well, she is an exceptionally lovely and vivacious child!

vincentaroony · 21/06/2017 18:55

Never met an Alma, it's very pretty and memorable. I think it's a strong name on its own with Rose as a middle name. Don't double barrel! It will lose the elegance. Allie is a sweet nickname.

PunkOfParis · 21/06/2017 19:00

Alma Rose is beautiful Envy

Is it pronounced a bit like Elma or Ulma iyswim? I prefer the Elma pronunciation . Thanks

PunkOfParis · 21/06/2017 19:02

'U'lma like 'AL' in Almod or like Elma the story ?

londonloves · 21/06/2017 19:35

My grandma's name was pronounced with a strong Al like Alcapone!

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user1498055568 · 21/06/2017 19:36

I think that's a lovely idea.
Alma Rose goes better Smile

ButterfliesandMoths · 21/06/2017 19:40

Alma Rose is a beautiful name.

ChorusLine69 · 21/06/2017 19:48

Alma Rose is a beautiful name - I'd go for that, so nice that it is meaningful to you and your family too

Kittykatmacbill · 21/06/2017 20:22

Alma is lovely, don't double barrel it with something as meh as rose.

Ojoj1974 · 21/06/2017 20:29

Alma Rose is a beautiful name x

MikeUniformMike · 21/06/2017 20:40

I go for Alma Rose Surname, known as Alma.
No nn.
Rose is a pretty name, as is Rosie but Alma has the family connection and is unusual without being odd. It makes me think of Alma Sedgwick but I know a really lovely woman called Alma too.

SparkyBlue · 21/06/2017 20:50

Alma Rose is beautiful. It's really unusual. I definitely wouldn't let the story of the violinist put you off. In fact it would give me more reason to use the name.

histinyhandsarefrozen · 21/06/2017 20:58

Alma is very beautiful, especially with the family connection.
And alma rose? She was a brave and extraordinarily talented musician- a great name sake- not that you have to tell anyone.

chumpchange · 21/06/2017 21:01

Alma Rose is an absolutely gorgeous name.

Alma stands alone as a first name, don't double barrel (with or wo hyphen).

PunkOfParis · 21/06/2017 21:25

"My grandma's name was pronounced with a strong Al like Alcapone!"

Perfect! Beautiful name x

Rockhopper81 · 21/06/2017 21:44

Alma is beautiful! Smile

I would have Rose as he middle name, no hyphenated first name.

I also think Alma is cute for a toddler - I have a picture in my head of a cute little one with an impish smile! Grin

I would love to use my grandmothers name if I ever had a daughter (would probably go for her middle name though - her first is now considered really dated, not in the 'it's come back round into fashion' way). I think it's lovely that you want to represent your family history. Smile

NotUser123 · 22/06/2017 01:25

I actually really love Alma Rose! It just sounds so classic and elegant, like the sort of name I can envision seeing as the headline on piano recitals, IYSWIM.

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