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MammieBear · 02/06/2017 07:41

What's your opinion on siblings having names beginning with the same initial? You see we have Edward and Matilda and I really like love actually Eleanor. ThankyouSmile

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redheadbarmaid · 02/06/2017 07:45

Well my 2 have the same initials and I can't see the problem a lot of people seem to have with it tbh.
Lovely names by the way

MammieBear · 02/06/2017 07:54

Ahh thankyou for your help, that's my take on it I think I'll go with my heart. X

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ThroughThickAndThin01 · 02/06/2017 08:02

I think it's fine.

BikeRunSki · 02/06/2017 08:16

It's fine
I have the same initials as my brother (also DH and DD!); no problem.

Dontrocktheboat · 02/06/2017 08:21

Two of my kids have the same initial (boy and girl) I don't think it is a problem - some people will say there is an issue with mail but I think this is probably less the case if not the same sex. Edward and Eleanor are fine together, not too matchy at all.

DryIce · 02/06/2017 08:56

I think there's a lot of over angst about matchy sibling names. They're going to be separate individual adults a whole lot longer than they're kids!

Also, biased, because those are all great names and I love Eleanor. Go for it!

user1482079332 · 02/06/2017 09:02

I have matching initial to my 3 siblings, none of us mind but when we all lived together sorting mail was a nightmare. Ie everything was Ms j Smith so we'd all open each other's mail

Growup · 02/06/2017 09:03

I think it's absolutely fine. Lots of Eleanors around here though for some reason.

kingfishergreen · 02/06/2017 09:05

I basically have the same name as my sister (same consonants different vowels) and it's been fine, in fact it's quite nice, think Lily and Lola, but not those names.

ForalltheSaints · 02/06/2017 09:07

Fine though I think you should think of middle names with a different initial.

Sandsnake · 02/06/2017 09:08

I think it's fine, as you have Matilda so not all 'E' names. I also think that your kids have lovely names and that Eleanor goes brilliantly - fits a sort of medieval royalty theme Smile

Hdgshsksk · 02/06/2017 09:20

We thoughtlessly gave one of DC the same initial as his Dad. It didn't cross our minds it would ever be an issue but it's surprising how often bank letters etc arrive just using first initial and surname. It's not a problem when the kids are kids but as older teens and adults it definitely can be a problem.

BadToTheBone · 02/06/2017 09:59

My mum and dad deliberately avoided giving anyone the same initials, so everyone in the family was different down to the bloody dog!!! They always said it would lead to problems. Ds and dh have the same initial, haven't come across a single problem in the 15 years since he arrived. It's a non-issue.

Sugarpiehoneyeye · 02/06/2017 10:02

Not a problem at all.

SuperBeagle · 02/06/2017 10:08

I wouldn't think anything of it if it was other people/their kids, but I avoided it with my own children. I liked several S names for my DDs but already had a Samuel, so we went with a initials we hadn't used.

Sophronia · 02/06/2017 12:38

I think it's fine. Lovely names!

BadToTheBone · 05/06/2017 09:34

No idea why this posted on here, I haven't even read this thread, lol

BadToTheBone · 05/06/2017 09:35

Oh dear me, not sure what is happening with my mn at the moment

PolarBearGoingSomewhere · 05/06/2017 09:56

Wouldn't even register really with other people's kids, wouldn't choose it for my own but I've never had any names I've loved and been set ob despite 3 DDs who I think have lovely names. If there's a name you love it, same initials doesn't matter a jot imo, especially different sexes so not two "Miss E. Bear" on documents.

Montsti · 05/06/2017 20:33

I'm not keen at all and actively avoid it (I'm due no.4 so it can be annoying as I do like a name with the same initial as another of my children) but I love alliteration - 1st name/surname...

EeekWhat · 05/06/2017 22:18

Ds and dh have the same initial, haven't come across a single problem in the 15 years since he arrived. It's a non-issue.

We found it was only an issue after the DC reached 15/16 and started receiving their own official correspondence Eg bank accounts etc

Ojoj1974 · 05/06/2017 22:21

Gorgeous names, go for it!

disneykid · 06/06/2017 00:31

Go for it. Although, I had the same initials as my mum so our post always got mixed up haha.

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