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Robyn (female)/ Robin (male) ?

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Heatherbell1978 · 31/07/2016 14:29

I've posted a couple of times on here as really struggling with names! Don't know the sex yet and I have a DS, Charlie. Current thinking is Robyn/Robin for either a girl or boy although more likely we'd use if it was a girl.

Never been a fan of spellings where i's are replaced by y's but in this case, Robyn is definitely female version I think.

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Normandy144 · 31/07/2016 14:34

I really like Robyn for a girl, and yes I would agree with you that the y in this instance is legitimate.

Oddly I don't really like it for a boy. Not sure why though.

KP86 · 31/07/2016 14:42

I like Robin for a girl. More modern IMO.

Heatherbell1978 · 31/07/2016 14:43

KP86 that's the male spelling though...it looks nicer but everyone would assume she was a boy

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Thefitfatty · 31/07/2016 14:44

I'm a Robin and I have a vagina.

WasDat · 31/07/2016 14:44

I really like it. Boy or girl.

Both girl Robyn's I've know we're spelt with a Y. To me, spelling it with an I is the boy way.

Floggingmolly · 31/07/2016 14:44

Robin is the boy's spelling. Ridiculous to commander it for a girl because it's more "modern" it isn't Confused

AmysTiara · 31/07/2016 14:52

I'd agree with you op. Robin for a boy, Robyn for a girl.

KP86 · 31/07/2016 14:53

I'm not saying it's not traditionally the male version of the name. But since when is that a reason not to use it?

What about people who have named their girls James or Dylan? Are they not allowed because they are "boy" names?

MiaowTheCat · 31/07/2016 14:55

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KP86 · 31/07/2016 14:55

Besides, I'm not the one naming the baby. It's not my decision in the end. Just saying what I personally like.

Thefitfatty · 31/07/2016 14:57

I think Robyn is actually quite modern. Every robin I know born before 1990 is robin boy or girl

Heatherbell1978 · 31/07/2016 15:03

KP86 again I'd assume James and Dylan were boys. Definitely each to their own but not sure I'd like my daughter to be confused for a boy on paper her whole life!

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KP86 · 31/07/2016 15:17

Actually, lots of research shows that she would be at an advantage on paper if people thought she was a boy.

Job applications etc.

Sad but true.

NeedACleverNN · 31/07/2016 15:19

I think it doesn't matter how you spell it boy or girl

Spell it how you like

iwillbemrsminty · 31/07/2016 15:20

I've got a little girl cousin called Robyn. And her brother is Rowan Smile

Elbekind · 31/07/2016 15:30

I've only ever known girls spell it 'Robyn'.
However, I've known both boys and girls called 'Robin'
So I'm not much help really Grin

eachtigertires · 31/07/2016 15:38

I know a female Robin, a male Robin and a female Robyn.

CakeRattleandRoll · 31/07/2016 16:19

I think if you spell it Robyn it would avoid boy/girl confusion - I've never heard of a boy Robyn. Plus I prefer the 'y' spelling for a girl.

Dachshund · 31/07/2016 17:19

My name is Robyn - growing up in the 80s/90s I HATED it - always confused with a boy's name, always spelt wrong ie with an 'I' and I had the Batman themesong sung at me constantly at school.

Nowadays it's really different and I think it's coming into its own as a cool name. Certainly I like it much more than I did and others seem to as well.

BadToTheBone · 31/07/2016 17:43

I have a Robyn friend who will be 50 later this year, so although modern it isn't completely new.

I only know Robyn, female and Robin, male.

YourNewspaperIsShit · 31/07/2016 22:13

Dachshund My experience was identical to yours. Also Robin Hood, Robin Red Breast, Rocking Robin, "where's Batman", etc.

Also spelt with a Y and believe me it doesn't stop the boy/girl confusion in the slightest. You may have never met a male Robyn (neither have i) but people still get it mixed up either way.

However now in my 20's I like it and think there'd be less bullying about it now as Batman isn't as popular (not the one with Robin in anyway) and no-one mentions Robin Hood much (was a popular Disney film when I was younger)

manicinsomniac · 01/08/2016 10:23

I really like it for both a boy and a girl but definitely spelt with a y for a girl and an i for a boy. I've never come across any that don't follow that convention. Yes, of course conventions can be broken but why bother? It makes more sense to use the 'correct' spelling.

plimsolls · 01/08/2016 21:22

I love the name Robin. So much. I have two ex boyfriends called Rob though so it's pretty much off my list unfortunately.

I've seen it as both Robin and Robyn for a girl (and not just recently).

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