muchardo We've decided against it, I still love it, and if we were choosing it as a name in the abstract sense, would def use it. For us though, we would be naming him specifically after AF, so it just won't be the same. I love Frederick, but I agree, it does seem incredibly popular, certainly where we are anyway...what else do you have on your 'list'?
toobreathless Strangely, I had bookmarked your thread as I think we have similar taste and I was interested to see what suggestions you got! I love Lysander, it's not really for us, but it is a great name
. Rupert would probably have been my frontrunner but has sadly been massively vetoed by DH. He's quite happy to leave it up to me to make the final choice, but has basically said 'anything but Rupert' so I do feel I have to respect such a strongly held view.
Jasper, Stirling and Thomas are the current favourites, but we can't seem to make a final decision. I'm really drawn towards Stirling, but it seems a bit too 'surname-as-firstname' - a trend I dislike.