Elsie May or Mae

[coneywonder]

My OH things Mae looks pretencious but has left it to me to decide.

Which do you prefer? If neither is an answer then please offer alternatives I'm due in 4 days and we only just decided on a middle name. Elsie is definitely going to be her name though (if we have a girl)

I prefer the May spelling, so Elsie May.

Elsie Juliet
Elsie Caroline
Elsie Faye
Elsie Miranda
Elsie Olivia

May.

Each to their own but I'm old fashioned.
I'd also call her Eleanor or Elisabeth and shorten it but I know lots of people disagree

Eleanor May is lovely

May is better.

Elsie is nice but May/Mae has to be up there with Rose as the most overused middle name at the moment. Every other girl I hear of seems to be a Lily Rose or a Tilly May or some other variation.

Elsie Jane?

Thanks ladies. I don't know any Elsie babies at all. I know it's becoming popular though. My partners nana is called Elsie which is why we have chosen that name.

I shall run your suggestions by my other half, naming a human is hard!

Elsie Jane is nice but Jane is my middle name think that matters?

Elsie May! Lovely, it was my grandma's name. Don't like Mae so much - seems made up.

Love Elsie. It's gorgeous, but Not another Mae/May. For a MN.
How about something a bit more different.
Elsie Jade
Elsie Marie
Elsie Beth
Elsie Sophia
Elsie Jeanette
Elsie Kate
Elsie Louise
Elsie Jo

Elsie Jane is lovely, much nicer than Elsie May/Mae.

Please lose the May if you can think of a better one, but if you must, May with no hyphen, never, ever Mae

Elsie is nice. May / Mae overused and uninspiring.

There are some lovely middle names out there...do you have any others in mind?

In my family the eldest child of each gender gets the respective of the same gender parent's middle name. My middle name has been passed down for 4 or 5 generations so far. I love the tradition but it looks like it'll stop with me unless I can convince DH to get me upduffed with a female foetus. He's saying no more DC.

I really cannot think or have seen any other name I like. I have completely gone off May now too. Back to square one haha

I prefer the more traditional May to go with a traditional first name (which I love!) But as others have said its very popular. My dd's middle name is Maye after Glen Maye on the Isle of Man but I doubt she'll be the only one of her friends with that MN. I wouldn't see having the same mn as a problem, lots of boys have the same first name as their dads after all.

Mabel instead of May?

My partner says my middle name is also too commonly used and doesn't like it. Haha. At least if we have a boy we have a name picked out for him!!

May/Mae is so popular as a middle name at the moment. I really don't like it.

Elsie Jane is lovely

Elsie is a nice name without the May/Mae (n I've seen it Mai too ). Is it a middle name to only b used on paperwork etc or will u refer to her as Elsie May / Elsie-May?

Every other girl under about 7 has a -May or a May on the end of perfectly nice names, I don't like the trend personally but if u r dead set on it then I think May is the nicest of the 3 spelling options.

I think I'll drop a middle name if I can't think of one. It won't be hyphenated anyway she would be known as Elsie but everyone on my side of the family has middle names you see

Elsie is nice, Elsie May is nice too as actual first n middle names iyswim. Great that u r not hyphenating it .

May is better - Mae looks weird and unfinished to me, somehow. I had a lovely, lovely great-auntie called Elsie Maria (pronounced as in Mariah Carey) if that's any help to you!

Thanks ladies :)

If you're going to add May then I'd use the May spelling. I work with kids and adding Mae to the end has become popular and also I would say is not associated with being pretentious but perhaps the other end of the spectrum :-/

Mae is the older spelling. But both spellings are overused now.