DH is Welsh (but non-Welsh speaker) and we live in England. He has chosen Griffin/Gryffin for DS (now five days old!) but we can't decide on the spelling. I had assumed Gryffin (shortened to Gryff, which is also used by some as as a name in itself, with that spelling), but DH thinks Griffin/Griff. I am less keen on these spellings, though I think the full name spelt Gryffin is not an "official" spelling. The question is whether this matters?
I don't especially like unusual spellings of names, but I suppose because I'm not Welsh I don't see Gryffin as "made up". He is not going to grow up in Wales and so I'm not too bothered if it looks totally wrong for Welsh speakers, but I don't want to lumber him with a really stupid, illiterate looking spelling, if that's what it is.
Interestingly, our non-Welsh speaking friends in Wales mostly seem to think that the 'y' spelling looks more Welsh!
Any views on the spellings? I'm in the middle of the newborn sleep deprived, hormonal fug, and I want to try not to screw up already 