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Toby

44 replies

emmaloulabelle · 28/08/2014 21:27

What do you think of the name Toby?
Not as a nickname for anything, as a full name.
What sort of impression do you get from it?

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MirandaGoshawk · 28/08/2014 21:29

It's not awful, but it sounds like a pet's name. But DS also has a friend called Toby and he is American and super-cool!

lisaloulou84 · 28/08/2014 21:48

Was my second choice, but we opted for Dylan. Love it!

TheObligatoryNotQuiteSoNewGirl · 28/08/2014 21:50

Absolutely lovely name, but then I am biased (DB's name). If it wasn't DB's name, it would definitely be on the list for a future (hypothetical) DC. I know a couple of other Toby's, one 17 and one nearly 2. Older one is Tobias, but 2yo and DB are both just Toby. My grandmother told my mum it was a dogs name, but that was before he was born, and afaik, there haven't been any negative comments since. He finds it rather annoying that there's never anything with his name on (mugs, pens etc), since I and our other brothers all have top-20 names.

Mouldypineapple · 28/08/2014 22:01

I like it. I have a family member with that name and probably because of that I seem to hear the name all over the place! I would say in my experience it's becoming more popular but not too much. Go for it!

PopGoesTheToast · 28/08/2014 23:34

It's a lovely name IMO.

ArsenicyOldFace · 29/08/2014 02:03

t's not awful, but it sounds like a pet's name

This. Sorry.

Guin1 · 29/08/2014 09:02

Love it. But couldn't persuade DH...

Kantha · 29/08/2014 10:11

I used to love it, but now I think it's a bit too cute sounding for an adult.

Toby was also my best friend's dog's name growing up.

squoosh · 29/08/2014 11:06

It's very babyish.

MirandaGoshawk · 29/08/2014 11:08

I really like Tobias though.

MoonHare · 29/08/2014 14:45

I love it. If we'd had a boy last time around he would have been Toby. I think it works man and boy.

I would never consider the 'pet's name' thing. Lots of people give their animals human names; there are some very well known cats called Tom but no-one ever says Tom is a pet's name.

Lunastarfish · 29/08/2014 14:47

I love Toby. It's at the top of my list!

SpiderTracker · 29/08/2014 14:48

I also think it is a dogs name. The first thing that comes to mind when I hear the name is my Gran's miniture poodle. There is even a Toby Dog in Abney and Teal so other children will associate it with a dog too.

emmaloulabelle · 29/08/2014 15:05

Aaah no :( It was the only name we could agree on, and now all I can think is 'dog'.

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ArsenicyOldFace · 30/08/2014 13:49

I agree with Miranda - Tobias is a fabulous name.

What do you think of Tobias OP?

Zara8 · 30/08/2014 13:53

It's a lovely name. It would've been DS's name, split second decision when he was born made us choose another name!

It's not a dog's name FFS. Would anyone in their right mind look at a baby named Toby and think hmmmmm dog. Hmm

Zara8 · 30/08/2014 13:54

We would have used Tobias on his birth cert btw

whycantifindaname · 30/08/2014 14:00

I have an almost 2 year old Toby. He, and his name, are lovely. I do know an adult Toby too, and it good fine on him.

Never have to spell it, or repeat it to anyone. Also, have not been asked if it is a nickname for anything (it's not).

lljkk · 30/08/2014 14:07

I know several English Toby's age 12. Just an ordinary name to me, like Harry or jack.

Guin1 · 30/08/2014 14:20

I don't understand the whole 'dog's name' thing. Maybe if you were considering Lassie or Rin Tin Tin... Do a search for the top 10 most popular dog names and you will find they are names like Alfie, Charlie, Max and Oscar. But if someone asks about naming their DS one of these, no-one says 'dog name'. Our dog was called Ben, our cats were Arthur, Claude and Pedro. No-one would say these were 'dog/cat names'.

ArsenicyOldFace · 30/08/2014 14:35

Well if I'm asked for an honest opinion about a hypothetical name, rather than a named child, then Max is a dog's name (to me) and Oliver is quite clearly a cat's name (in my little head).

It's the nature of the board.

One of my DC has a first name that get's completely slaughtered here every second Tuesday. I try not to read those posts if I'm feeling touchy but most days I know it is all just opinion and hot air.

emmaloulabelle · 30/08/2014 16:41

Thanks, feel a bit better about it now.
DH hates Tobias, and our surname begins with S - so it all runs into one sound.

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ArsenicyOldFace · 30/08/2014 16:45

If you like it, use it. What do we know?

I'm only gabbing on here because I don't want to strip wallpaper. It's your baby Smile

Bowlersarm · 30/08/2014 16:48

It's a great name. There's a sprinkling of them through all age groups, so not a new name, but not common either.

Prefer it short for Tobias.

I know a lot of dogs. I don't know any called Toby.

HaroldLloyd · 30/08/2014 16:51

Well I don't mind the name, but I did have a cat called Toby.

I have no issue using human names stolen by animals though.

As long as it's not Shep, Fido, Mr Paws etc.

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