Obviously this isn't really a baby name question but it does relate to names and I thought you may have some wise words.
DD starts school in September but, as we're away a lot over the next few months, I want to get everything organised now. She has a classic English name but is known but a common but not necessarily obvious diminutive (for example, called "Margaret" but known as "Daisy"). She knows and can recognise both her names but prefers "Daisy" and, as that is what we call her 80% of the time, that is what most other people (including all of her pre-school friends who will be going to "big" school with her) know her as as it was the name I used when I introduced her to people.
So, what name do I put on the name tape? I was going to have Margaret Surname but will that decrease the chance of items being returned? Yes, her teacher and a couple of other people will know her proper name but I don't think most people will and I'm not sure they will make the connection, especially as "Daisy" is a name in itself.
Any thoughts? If it helps, our surname is unusual so I can pretty much guarantee she will be the only one in the school with that surname.
Thanks