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Martha or Emma?

78 replies

insanelycheerful · 19/05/2014 14:49

Which of these do you prefer and why? I love both and am being (typically!) indecisive!

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insanelycheerful · 19/05/2014 21:57

Sorry. I appear to have gone message crazy!!

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littlegreengloworm · 19/05/2014 21:57

Lol at Everton

Grin

This baby name thing is so hard!

SavoyCabbage · 19/05/2014 21:58

Emma. Martha is so dowdy.

SpottieDottie · 19/05/2014 22:00

Martha is lovely and not overused.

Mynewone · 19/05/2014 22:00

I prefer Emma to Martha- Emma is a lovely classic name, Martha seems a bit faddy ATM. I love Annabel though fabulous name

regularbutpanickingabit · 19/05/2014 22:08

Emma Martha Florence would work beautifully!

adaloveslace · 19/05/2014 22:08

Martha. Tom Waits. Job done Smile

Bowlersarm · 19/05/2014 22:11

Emma.

And just change your allegiance to a different football team. Easy.

regularbutpanickingabit · 19/05/2014 22:14

Emma Martha Florence sounds perfect!

insanelycheerful · 19/05/2014 22:17

Santas have you never liked it? Can you say why?

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insanelycheerful · 19/05/2014 22:17

Grin At Bowlers!!

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insanelycheerful · 19/05/2014 22:20

Emma Martha Florence is lovely! And you are right, 2 middle names would solve the issue of EFC. Our other 2 DCs only have one middle name each though. Would it be unfair to give this one two middle names?! DH seemed to think so. We have 2 DSs, so it would mean doing something different for a girl. Having said that, surely this one is likely to be a boy too, so all this agonising could well be pointless!!

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insanelycheerful · 19/05/2014 22:21

Emma Martha Florence is lovely! And you are right, 2 middle names would solve the issue of EFC. Our other 2 DCs only have one middle name each though. Would it be unfair to give this one two middle names?! DH seemed to think so. We have 2 DSs, so it would mean doing something different for a girl. Having said that, surely this one is likely to be a boy too, so all this agonising could well be pointless!!

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insanelycheerful · 19/05/2014 22:21

Emma Martha Florence is lovely! And you are right, 2 middle names would solve the issue of EFC. Our other 2 DCs only have one middle name each though. Would it be unfair to give this one two middle names?! DH seemed to think so. We have 2 DSs, so it would mean doing something different for a girl. Having said that, surely this one is likely to be a boy too, so all this agonising could well be pointless!!

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Vijac · 19/05/2014 22:43

Emma definitely

fancyacupoftea · 19/05/2014 22:49

I really like both.

I'd never even considered Martha as a name until OBEM the other week when one of the women giving birth was called Martha and I was instantly drawn to it.

So I'd vote Martha.

ratqueen · 20/05/2014 07:16

Emma is a gorgeous, classic name. I like Martha and know two very sweet ones but I personally think Emma is timeless.

Martha Emma was my grandmother's name. She didn't like Martha and was known as Emma. It is a nice name though... You could always call her Martha Florence Emma (or whatever) then choose one to call her which you prefer.

ratqueen · 20/05/2014 07:17

To avoid the EFC I mean...

SantasLittleMonkeyButler · 20/05/2014 08:56

Hi. I didn't have particular feeling about it when I was younger, but I don't like it at all as an adult. It's just quite boring & always shortened to Em, which I can't stand! I'd rather have a name with either more options for shortening (nice ones!) or something more interesting.

insanelycheerful · 20/05/2014 13:16

Ratqueen that is funny that your grandma was Martha Emma!

I do like the combination of Martha, Florence and Emma all together, but not sure DH will agree to 2 middle names when the boys only have one each....He has no middle name and his sisters do. I suspect this has always felt a bit odd to him!

I did start to wonder about Florence Emma to avoid EFC, but realised this gives us FEC, which is potentially worse!

Thanks to everyone for comments and suggestions, it does help even if I seem as indecisive as ever!

Thanks also santas for saying why you don't like Emma. It seems such a shame to shorten such a lovely name to Em.

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smokeandfluff · 21/05/2014 14:01

Love Martha.

alita7 · 21/05/2014 14:30

I love Emma!

baskingseals · 21/05/2014 15:17

Definitely Emma.

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