So we've done some more thinking and still can't completely agree. Would be interested in others' opinions of these names:
I like:
Matilda
Tess
Cecelia
Valerie
Sylvia
Rose
Husband likes:
Esther
Rachel
Lucy
Lydia
We both like:
Alice
Esther/Tess : I don't like Esther loads but could it be shortened to Tess which I love?
What are your thoughts? Any you love/hate? Surname is one syllable and middle name is likely to be Ann after both of our mothers..