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Me again! My husband doesnt like Oliver And i am really fed up with him right now

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Lucia2013 · 19/02/2013 23:25

Hello everyone!

I have had it with my husband... He told me he doesn't like Oliver and by now I couldn't take it anymore and bbroke down in tears as I've had this for the last five months. I think he is selfish and indecisive and I have just had it! I had his parents telling us about their choices of baby boy names they like and I am fed up with them too. My mum and dad haven't even tried telling me how to name my baby. I can't help but compare my current to my ex husband who was so easy going on that.... He liked the same names as I did and we never "talked" as much about this subject! I had enought And I don't even want to think about names anymore as it breaks my heart now. Now he says he likes Nicholas and Leonardo and other names he told me he didn't like... He even likes Santiago now but a month ago he told me he hated it as my ex husband liked it for my son but in the end we ended calling him Sebastian! He changes his mind so much and up to know I dealt with it well I think but now I have just had it. He told me in the end I should call him whatever I wanted as he now believes I should be happy as I'm carrying the baby and giving birth! Is anybody else in a situation like this? I'm truly fed up with him right now...

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eggso · 19/02/2013 23:30

Wait until the baby's here. We didn't agree on a thing until we saw our DS :) It's not like he's going to be nameless for the rest of his life, somethign will come come up. CHILLLLLL"!

Lucia2013 · 19/02/2013 23:46

I have chilled since then ... He told me to pick names I love so I'm gonna do that now and start a new thread! Lol

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Cathycat · 19/02/2013 23:46

You rule the roost! Wait until he's seen you go through labour ... then say what you want. You will receive your name, no worries lol! xx

Lucia2013 · 19/02/2013 23:55

He is so annoying! Everything has to be his way... Our wedding, honeymoon.... I am putting my foot down now! I'm not letting him control this... It means too much for me. Btw my other two are from my other marriage... My ex didn't give me a hard time about his!!!

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