Cold feet on Fionnuala

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DH and I thought we had our name pretty much agreed, we were choosing between these three options:
Fionnuala Olive Bo
Fionnnuala Ottitilie Bo
Fionnuala Romilly Bo
But then I got cold feet on Fionnuala. I like it but don't the shortened versions of Fionnuala much, Nula and Finn are a bit too masculine for me. We thought we'd use the nickname Lula but now I'm not so sure.

Other names I like are:
Sophie (but DH hates it)
Tabitha (likely go be shortened to Tabby and my niece is Abbey)
Ottilie (likely to be shortened to Tilly and other niece is Lilly)
Isabel (but close friend has pipped me to the post)

Any thoughts on Fionnuala or any of the above would be great!

No, it's pronounced Fun-oola

Olive is lovely, but Fionnuala is awful imo. Not a fan of Ottilie either tbh.

I thought you were going to call your child Fee-own-yoo-ah-la. I like it now I know how to say it. But I prefer Ottilie.

The one I know pronounces it Fin-ooo-la. Not Fun... Fin.

What about Fi (Fee) as a shortening? I only know Fiona's (which is nicer, IMO) but they've all been Fi.

Recently worked with someone called Fionnuala and no one at work could pronounce or spell it. Depends whether that bothers you or not I suppose. It would annoy me!

I love Fionnuala. Always have.

I would avoid using a name that is difficult to say/spell in the country you live. If you plan to live/bring her up in England, choose a name that English people can say/spell.

I'm Irish, Fionnuala is a beautiful name, I definitely would not put it in the same category as Gertrude! Both Fionnualas I know shorten it to Fi.

I think it's pronounced Fin-oola. There are different spelling variatons which may make it easier for people to spell but if we go with it I expect we'd go with the spelling Fionnuala. I'm not actually a fan of the name Fiona and don't really like Fi, there's just something about Fionnuala we both like.

DH loves it but I keep veering from Fionnuala to Ottilie and back. Oh gosh this naming thing is hard.

No, it's a broad vowel sound - fun-oola

That's why I prefer Finola.

Sometimes anglicised names are nicer.

The one I know definitely pronounces it Fin... Not Fun.

I really wouldn't give this name to a child of mine. If none of us can agree how it is pronounced or how it should be spelt then the poor girl is going to
Have it for the rest of her life.

What about Fenella? It's close but less complicated.

Finn oola is the most common pronunciation in Ireland,

I was going to say
Do you have Irish heritage, if not leave alone

What's your surname? Because you have initials of F O

So you have F O BO

Really give a child's name like BO, even though it's said bow it's still BO.

At fionuala. Really not a. Fun name for a kid to try and spell etc.

If you are Irish then that's ok, but otherwise I'd leave we'll alone...

As for similar names to your nieces, that's really not an issue. My nephew and my DD have the same shortened name. It's never been an issue.

Argh! I can't even spell it Fionnuala?

I'm Irish & would never put Fionnuala on a par with Gertrude (which I don't like!).

I do also love Niamh, so think we have similar tastes.

If you're going with an Irish name, then please keep a traditional spelling!

Ottile is lovely, DD is friends with a very cute Ottie (her real name isn't Ottile and I don't quite know why she's NN Ottie, but it really suits her).

I can't get my dyslexic brain round Fionella ?

Fiona Ottile is probably far to dull.

Thanks for all the comments. daughteroflir I imagine people find it a difficult name to spell in the UK, has that ever caused problems or become frustrating?

My grandparents were Irish but I haven't really had a strong connection with Ireland. DH's family on the other hand have a strong Irish connection and he would love an Irish name. We both have Irish surnames.

Interesting points on the pronunciation. I had always thought it was pronoucned Fin-oo-la. I think if we choose it we will go with the traditional spelling as other variations look a bit phonetic.

To be honest my favourite name is Isobel/Isabel but one of my really close friends has an Isabel and DH feels it would be difficult to give our daughter the same name. Fionnuala and Ottilie are my second choices, I think Fionnuala has the edge for us but everyone's thoughts are really helpful.

Love Fionnuala !!!

I think Isabel is also lovely, but its very popular currently - there are at least 6 in my sons small infant school & more in my younger sons Pre school but I've never heard a Fionnuala in England at all.

Thanks vesti and onedev. Good point about how popular Isobel is these days, would ideally like our little one to have something that's a bit unique.

We have three names in the running now all of which we'd give a family nickname. I know lots of people don't like nicknames but we do and with my family everyone has a nickname version of their name. So this is the new shortlist:

Fionnuala Olive (nickname could be Lula)
Ottilie Saffron (nickname could be Ottie, Tilly or Lottie)
Isla Pru (nickname could be Isy) - not sure about Pru as a middle name but have gone off our original 'Bo'.

Thanks for everyone's comments, they've been really useful for making me realise what I want from our name choice.

Still loving Fionnuala Olive out of those. The other combos don't sound as 'right' together. I think with Irish heritage & surname you can perfectly justify the name choice plus the fact this is the only name combo youve stuck with since start of thread says a lot about what your heart's telling you.

Really don't like Saffron, one of my all time worst names. But that's just personal taste. & Isla is ok but bit candy fluff American nowadays although I know it's original roots are far from it.