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Ottilie or Dolcie

63 replies

Thisistheway · 21/10/2012 09:40

What do you think? Are they too weird?

DH doesn't like either but he never likes any of the ones I suggest first, then he gets used to them....but he says he doesn't want us to call DD a name where people's first reaction is 'eh?'. Are these 'eh' names?

Have 10 weeks left to choose and worried am not gonna find one I love!

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aufaniae · 21/10/2012 14:37

Love Ottilie, great name :)

MoonHare · 21/10/2012 14:59

TBH I think they're both potentially 'eh?' names.

Ottilie is gaining in popularity and quite common in the MN community but I confess the first time I ever heard it in RL was about 18 mth ago and I thought I'd been told the baby's name was 'Otterly' and I really did think eh?!! And I have never before heard of Dolcie, so would again think 'eh?' until coming to MN to be educated.

mathanxiety · 21/10/2012 15:17

I don't like either. They sound like names for rag dolls.

Dolly was a cloned sheep. A dolly is also a doll. And Dolcie looks like a misspelling of Dolce (and Gabbana).

Heidi makes me think of goats and yodelling.

Lucy OTOH is a gorgeous name. It's not popular, just a classic, and a name that goes with you through your life.

Floralnomad · 21/10/2012 15:27

Sorry but I don't like either ,if you like Tilly why not just call her that ? Although it keeps making me think of northern Cookson books. Love Tallulah BTW and although Lucy is nice if you call her in a park you'll be surrounded by Labradors , same goes for Bella and Molly !

fruitpastille · 21/10/2012 15:27

I think they are both a bit eh really. If you like Tilly then just have that! It is popular but if you really love it i don't think that matters.

MrsSchadenfreude · 21/10/2012 15:59

Thisistheway - yes, she loves it, as do we. It really suits her. It's a family name and should be pronounced "Ottilia" but she only gets called that when she's naughty.

MadamFollywillFreakyouout · 21/10/2012 19:13

I think they are both pretentious and dreadful, sorry!

suzyrut · 22/10/2012 10:23

I love Ottilie but my dp doesn't like it much either, says that she'd forever be explaining and spelling it to people.

ClareMarriott · 22/10/2012 17:59

Ottilie is rather exotic and she could be called Tilly for short !! I think you are thinking of Dulcie and the only I know of is the actress Dulcie Gray likewise with Tallulah, the actress Tallulah Bankhead . What names has your DH come up with ?

ruby22 · 22/10/2012 21:02

I know of 2 Ottilie's one was my friends daughter's name, the other is from a 70s film with Joan Collins in. I think it very much depends on where you are located and if regional accents at school etc would alter the pronunciation....

Cahoots · 22/10/2012 22:14

I love Ottilie although it is very trendy.

VBisme · 22/10/2012 22:19

What about Odile?

cece · 22/10/2012 22:22

Ottilie was on my list (but not DH) so I like it.

Dulcie is not very nice imo. Bit old lady and not in a good way.

Other names we (I) liked were; Verity, Thea, Alethea and Anna

KennethParcell · 22/10/2012 22:22

do you mean Dulcie? i like Dulcie, but Dolcie looks like Dolce as in Gabanna which would be so embarrassing :))

Ottilie is utterly awful. Ottoline sounds like some bovine disease. dreadful

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 22/10/2012 22:26

Unless you are European and/or live in Europe, then no. They are just pretentious.

Bluestocking · 23/10/2012 10:35

Saggy, we Brits are European and live in Europe.

Rhubarbgarden · 23/10/2012 10:42

I like Ottilie. I know a little Ottie. Most people say "oh that's pretty" but she does get "Eh?" too fairly regularly.

If you don't want popular, avoid Tilly like the plague.

Clumsasaurus · 23/10/2012 11:13

How about Lacey?

fraktion · 23/10/2012 11:33

I wanted Ottillie for a DD but everyone I mentioned it to in the UK pronounced Utterly or Otterley and it put me right off it.

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Thisistheway · 23/10/2012 11:50

Lol bluestocking! I nearly let that put me off til I read your comment and realised I'm European too!

Thanks for your comments everyone. Dolcie is ruled out. And i'm less keen on Ottilie now - I still think it's a pretty name but it's probably a bit too eh? for me.

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SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 23/10/2012 12:20

Well you might be European, but Im British, and I live in Great Britain. Grin

KennethParcell · 23/10/2012 12:29

I know what the poster meant about 'european'. ie, NOT English. If the parents of an Ottilie were Portuguese or Italian or French or Spanish,,,,,,,,,,,,,, or MULDOVIAN or whatever, I would think, oh ok. But it's just awful if you are English, sorry british, sorry an English-speaking European. jmo of course.

Bluestocking · 23/10/2012 12:37

I knew what Saggy meant too, I was just being a bit of a pedant!

drjohnsonscat · 23/10/2012 12:47

Why only any good for Europeans? They are both names with a perfectly long Britiish heritage. Well Ottoline (Morrell) and Dulcie are. Never heard of Dolcie and would assume it was a typo for Dulcie which I love. Yes Dolcie makes me think of Dolcis but I think those who remember Dolcis are dying out Shock

YokoOhNo · 23/10/2012 12:54

Dont mind Ottilie. I had a friend at university who was called Ottilia (pronounced Oh-teal-ya), but always known as Tilly, if you are looking for a name that shortens to Tilly.

Dolcie is just awful. Thought it was a typo too, but now I know. It me of Dolce and Gabbana or else that man Joe Dolce who sang "What's The Matter You, Hey" and I'd probably pronounce it something like Doll-chay. Dulcie is not bad.