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My son is called Finn and...

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NotFrazzledAtAll · 27/04/2012 15:04

I want to cry every time I read the baby names forum. He's one and I didn't realise it was so 'common' and 'over used' when I named him. I also didn't really think abound dating so badly... Probably should have done though!

I seriously want to change his name now but I won't because he knows it...

I need to stop thinking about his name but I can't!! Am I being over sensitive or should I really think about changing it to something more sensible and safe?

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kitcatcandy · 27/04/2012 15:08

Change it if it's really making you that sad, but not just because of what other pole say, only if YOU really want to. I think it's a nice name really, and all baby names go though fashions and come and go, doesn't make them bad names.

In our village there are very few Finns.

How old is he?

Toughasoldboots · 27/04/2012 15:11

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LikeaPairOfNunsKnickers · 27/04/2012 15:12

I look after a Fynn. I love the name - it's short, snappy and lively. Suits him down to the ground.

If you love the name, don't change it because of the opinion of a group of faceless strangers on an internet forum.

LikeaPairOfNunsKnickers · 27/04/2012 15:13

(Maybe 'snappy' wasn't the right word - makes him sound like a grumpy croc!...)

tara0202 · 27/04/2012 15:15

I go to lots of baby groups and have never met a Finn. It's not popular like say harry or Oliver or William. Just name your baby a name you like and don't listen to other people!

RunnerHasbeen · 27/04/2012 15:16

You shouldn't change it if random posts on an internet forum are your only reason, you should just stop reading that particular forum. There is no name universally liked on here, and even if there was it wouldn't represent the tastes of everyone you are going to meet. Also, it isn't actually that bad to have a popular, dated name (not saying Finn is) - it isn't like every Karen is in therapy because of it.

Can you really imagine saying to people who ask why you are changing his name "it is too popular, I don't really know many or would have noticed the popularity but I have read on an internet forum that some anonymous people think it is." You would have to tell him that as well, doesn't it look a bit silly written down. Honestly, it is a lovely name which probably suits him by now.

bigbluebump · 27/04/2012 15:17

If it really bothers you, then how about adding another first name and keeping Finn as his middle name. That way you can slowly introduce another name that you love more.

How popular is your surname? If it is a very common name, e.g. Smith or Jones then it may be annoying for your ds to share a name with lots of others (I'm talking from experience in work) but if your surname is less widely used he should be ok on that front.

TimeForCake · 27/04/2012 15:19

I love it! But that is exactly why I don't venture onto the baby names board very often, it can be very unhelpful. Ignore the comments. You chose the name because it's lovely and it probably suits your ds. I have never heard anything negative about it and it is certainly not overused where I am. As for dating...I think it'll be fine. It's not like it's a made up name with a made up spelling! Relax. You chose well imo.

glastocat · 27/04/2012 15:19

Finn is a lovely name, you're being daft. And I am a fussy beggar about names.

iloveACK · 27/04/2012 15:19

I think it's a lovely name so if you liked it originally then stick with it.

I'm 35 now & have 5 different friends all called Claire (never mind working with quite a few) - so obviously v popular in the 70s & they're all great, it doesn't cross my mind that it was 'common' or whatever but the sheer numbers of them must mean it was at the time!

pantaloons · 27/04/2012 15:20

I have also never met a Finn.

I have an Archie and it must be one of the most ridiculed names on here and other forums, but I don't know anyone else with the same name even though it is branded as too common etc etc. It suits him and I love it and to me that's all that matters.

NagooIsBuildingAnArk · 27/04/2012 15:21

Hide the topic and get back to your real life.

Easy :)

TheSinglePringleWillicopters · 27/04/2012 15:22

My sons name is ridiculed on here as is,the spelling but I don't care!

HolyCameraConfusionBatman · 27/04/2012 15:24

I love the name Finn and have ages, but for me it's off the table at the moment as it's just so popular.

Don't change his name just move somewhere it isn't that popular....

Toughasoldboots · 27/04/2012 15:25

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rachel234 · 27/04/2012 15:27

Yes, Finn has become very popular. If you still love the name then stick with it and hide these threads. If, however it really bothers you, then I'd consider changing it or adding another middle name. At 12 months he's still young enough to accept other names imo. Depends how much it bothers YOU, regardless of what others think. Also agree that I'd worry less if your surname is less popular.

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NotFrazzledAtAll · 27/04/2012 15:30

Thanks everyone! I think what I need to do is stop reading baby name threads and stop obsessing about it. He has got a very safe middle name so could use that later in life if he wants to.

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comelywench · 27/04/2012 15:32

There's nothing wrong with the name Finn. Just ignore the 'haters' online and try to remember why you loved it originally. If you really have gone off it, you could start using a nickname or his middle name instead, but please don't change it by deed poll or anything.

You can never please everyone, especially online where people are more rude blunt.

I have an Archie too pantaloons. I'd never met another one before we had him, but have met loads a few since. I don't care. I still love his name and it's suits him down to the ground.

It's each to their own at the end of the day and someone on Mumsnet somewhere, will always disagree. Variety t'is the spice of life.

picnicbasketcase · 27/04/2012 15:34

It's a lovely name, and FWIW, I've only ever met one Finn.

DefiniteMaybe · 27/04/2012 15:36

My ds's name was in an article named the top 10 most hated names along with about 5 other names that just have an extra letter at the beginning. I used the proper a different spelling though. Doesn't bother me still love the name.

MikeLitoris · 27/04/2012 15:40

I don't know any one called Finn (except your ds if you are who I think you are) and I love it.

I had it on my boys list for dd2.

Fwiw dd1's name got ripped to shreds on here. It stung a bit to read but actually what does it matter? She is almost 8 now and loves her name. He can decide for himself when he is older if he wants to use his middle name.

cece · 27/04/2012 15:41

There is a reason that some names are popular - they are nice.

Ignore all the negative posts and get on with enjoying your son.

eggyblackett · 27/04/2012 15:44

It's a lovely name. I only know one and he is 8, so not overly popular in these parts :).

Ephiny · 27/04/2012 15:47

I think it's a nice name, and have never met one in real life. Whatever name you choose there will always be some people who don't like it!

GnocchiGnocchiWhosThere · 27/04/2012 15:47

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