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Having a wobble about Esther - nice or not?

39 replies

nwthree · 18/04/2012 12:31

After much discussion, we'd finally decided on the name Esther for our baby due this summer. We love it, but a couple of family members have looked quizzical/faintly appalled at our choice. Now I'm wondering if it's a nice name at all. The Rantzen factor seems to be the main objection, but it's not as though she's on TV all the time. What do you think?

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Stellan · 18/04/2012 12:32

Love it.

Also like Hester too.

noddyholder · 18/04/2012 12:33

Love it too

DottieRose · 18/04/2012 12:34

Not a name that I like, dont know why!

needtogetalife · 18/04/2012 12:37

love it

redrubyshoes · 18/04/2012 12:39

Not sure.

RabidAnchovy · 18/04/2012 12:42

Very nice name

squoosh · 18/04/2012 12:46

Lovely. Esther Rantzen didn't even occur to me.

Sounds like a 16th century Puritan woman's name. I read a lot of historical fiction :)

4pinkbabies · 18/04/2012 12:50

The appalled looks and quizzical faces would make me even more determined to use the name I loved. The same thing happened with 2 of our daughters. Your name, your choice. It's a very pretty name..my best friend at school was Esther and she was a lovely, clever girl. Congratulations!

feetheart · 18/04/2012 12:53

Lovely name.

I would stop discussing names with anyone else, you will always get a few who will turn their nose up. Either that or tell them you are going to call her Engelbert or something in a similar vein :)

FondleWithCare · 18/04/2012 13:05

I don't like it because of somebody I know with that name. If I didn't know her then I would be indifferent towards it.

Cwm · 18/04/2012 13:15

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OutInAllWeathers · 18/04/2012 13:19

I think it's pretty and you will always get those reactions from some people about a name. Once your lovely baby is here they will love her name regardless because it's hers.

greenandcabbagelooking · 18/04/2012 13:23

Love it, I have two friends with the name and the both wear it well. As long as your/her last name isn't Bond,.

Jess850 · 18/04/2012 13:31

Gorgeous name.

rocket74 · 18/04/2012 13:42

I really like it and had a really good friend called it too. She had a sister called Esme which is a similar option and also pretty.

I won't really discuss names with family until the baby is born as they feel they can give their opinion - but once its born they are more inclined to go along with it!! We had a lot of 'WHat??!! are you joking?' for our sons name but we kept it and now everyone likes it because they love him x

SoFarWeAreEqual · 18/04/2012 13:43

Love it. Also love Hester

Quills · 18/04/2012 14:15

I think it's beautiful, I'd gladly use it for our baby if only DH would agree!

nwthree · 18/04/2012 14:20

Thanks everyone. You're absolutely right that our first mistake was canvassing opinion. We will keep our mouths shut and use the name we love.

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kickingKcurlyC · 18/04/2012 14:47

It's a really nice name. I like Hester too.

FunnysInLaJardin · 18/04/2012 14:50

I like it and Hester was at the top of our girls name list, hetty for short. We had boys in the end. Oh and ref asking other folk, we didn't do this with either of ours and didn't tell anyone until the DC were born for the very reason that we didn't care what other folk thought, and knew some wouldn't hesitate to tell us how crap our choices were.

ghosteditor · 18/04/2012 14:53

I like it! 'Hester' is DD's middle name and is Greek for star; I'm not sure if Esther is the same root? At any rate, a friend's 6 week old DD is Esther and she's lovely too Grin

geraldinetheluckygoat · 18/04/2012 14:54

I love it! And hester!

BBQJuly · 18/04/2012 18:56

Esther is quite nice, but Hester seems a bit frumpy and jolly hockey sticks.

How about Estella?

gafhyb · 18/04/2012 19:11

Like it.

MoonHare · 18/04/2012 19:21

To add to the positive vibe - LOVE the name Esther, gutted that I named my cat Esther is the pre baby years when I just called her a name I loved without a thought to the future. We've had her 12 years so now way we could ever use it for a child. But you should go for it, ignore relatives who wrinkle their noses they will come round.