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Those of you who didn't use your all-time favourite name...?

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HardCheese · 26/03/2012 13:43

This is down to my own idle curiosity, following the thread in which people posted their all-time favourite girls' names.

Quite a few people said that though they adored a particular name or names, they hadn't used ever them for their own children. Sometimes the reason was because it didn't go with the surname/didn't have a child of that sex etc, but a small but significant number said their husband/partner had vetoed it as too unusual or not 'ordinary enough', or because it 'would need explaining'.

Obviously, I'm not disputing the right of either parent to veto a name they loathe, but it looked to me slightly as if people's male partners' had more conservative tastes in names than the posters...?

Is this true in your experience? If so, what kinds of name got that kind of response from your OH, and did he say why? Is it fair to say that men have more conservative (don't stand out in the school yard) tastes in baby-naming than women, and is it equally true of baby boy names and girl names?

[Obviously, not assuming everyone naming a baby is in a het couple situation, but it seemed to be women posting about male partner's preferences in the original thread...]

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Frikadellen · 28/03/2012 19:24

Somewhat true in my case (and I havent posted on other thread yet)

My favourite girls names are Aida, Lakme' and Monica. (yes I know they are very different )

Dh didnt like Aida and Lakme' we named dd1 Phoebe (his all time favourite girls name and a specific reason as for why) so when it came to dd2 we couldn't possibly pick Monica and not have everyone think we had named from Friends..

My all time favourite boys name is Danish and has a letter that doesn't exist in the English language I felt it was cruel to give that to a boy. I adore ds name and it is SO Him but a small part of me wish I had gone ahead with it (Dd3 has this name's feminine version for her mn)

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