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What do you think are the Sharon/Tracy/Michelle names of this generation???

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YummyMummybee · 27/02/2012 13:46

Out of interest what do you think are the Sharon/Tracy/Michelles names of this generation. No offence to anyone with these names but when I was in school there was at least 3 of each in my class. It seems they really were only of my generation(I'm 30) & never made a revival. In particular Michelle is lovely.
I'm thinking
-Lily
-Daisy
-Poppy will not get carried on as classic names although fab in their own right are they too trendy???

Also for boys what would you suggest. I cant really think of boys names from my school years as I went to an all girls school-possibly Shane was v common but now don't hear very often
I'm thinking
-Finn
-Oscar
may not stand the test of time???

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anewmotivatedme · 28/02/2012 16:42

I like the names Aaron and Ethan too.

I don't mind names, which could possibly be considered chavvy, by some people (such as Lauren or Ethan), it's the names that have been 'demonised' (possibly too strong a word), and labelled by everyone, such as Kai and Chantelle, I tried to avoid.

Ephiny · 28/02/2012 16:48

Lauren, Aaron and Ethan are all lovely names IMO. No negative connotations at all for me!

YummyMummybee · 28/02/2012 20:30

Wow-thats alot of responses! It is not a snobby thread & I am not a snob I just wanted peoples opinions of what the ICONIC names of our generation will be! As another poster pointed out every decade has its distinctive name.

Math anxiety that is funny re your Sheriden!! I totally agree with Siobhan I love Siobhan & the less common Siofra which is fab:) Was never a fan of Sinead... Yes Graninne was very common in my school too

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scottishmummy · 28/02/2012 20:35

Ava
grace
evie
Ellie

Kai
Jake
max
alfie

chipmonkey · 28/02/2012 22:00

I love Siofra as well and I only know two, one my age and one 13 year old.

Bearhugs43 · 28/02/2012 22:33

Personally I think the op was just badly phrased (sorry) the question is really what are the names of our children's generation which will be out of favour by the time they name theirs. Answer is probably most of them bar those that have crossed generations before (the elizabeths etc). They will no more name their children after their classmates than we have done.
However what can be interpreted from the question is which names are going to have the negative class connotations that we associate with names like Sharon and Tracey.
Whilst many of us have used currently popular names very few would like to believe they have saddled their dc with those negative connotations. I think it is unjustified to call them cutesy or overused - that is subjective. They are simply the popular names of a generation.

When we named our children we never considered their uk popularity - just whether we knew anyone with the name or not and whether we liked it. As it turns out uk wide all of my dc's names are in the top 100 (Inc mn) we still know of no others in our community though.

So... Whilst I felt for the four Claire Louise's in my class at school, I never viewed them as having a negative asset in their name in terms of class connotation.

There is a massive difference between a popular name and one that saddles an individual with negative characteristics.

Using a popular name marks out your child as of it's generation - nothing more or less.

Tis all Blush

PercyFilth · 28/02/2012 22:43

I think you need to read the OP again. Nothing was said about negative connotations. Some other posters have introduced that aspect, including yourself.

mrudagawa · 28/02/2012 23:18

Alfie
Archie
Bradley
Finn/Finlay
Jamie
Aaron
Callum
Kade/n
Kane
Kieran/on
Frankie
Brodie
Dylan
Lewis
Tyler
Kyle
Rhys/Reece
Ryan
Jake
Ashley/leigh
Gemma
Jade/n
Jordan/dayne/danne
Demi
Ainsley
Aimee
Abbie
Hayley
Danielle
Evie-May
Ruby
Paige
Mia
Chelsea
C/Kaitlin
Kadey/ie
Kalyleigh/Keeley
Candice
Lauren
Lexie
Madison
Ria/Rea/Rhea
Shannon

1944girl · 28/02/2012 23:44

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chipmonkey · 29/02/2012 00:42

A lot of people in Ireland were named Mary but called something else entirely. A lot of priests told the parents at the altar that they were to baptise their child Mary but the parents would then go away and call the child what they wanted to in the first place.

lottiegb · 29/02/2012 10:18

The thing is, from my 80s school days, 'Sharon and Tracey' carry massive connotations and it's impossible to read 'names like these' without that 'white stilleto archetype' being the first thing that comes to mind. It wasn't just about people with these names but that the term 'Sharons and Traceys' or 'she's a bit of a Sharon' 'that's a bit Sharony' were widely used and understood. Of course that was snobby but that doesn't stop it from being true. Those names burned themselves out through association, as well as overuse.

On the other hand, the popular names at the same time (so born in 70s) that peaked, then dropped, were Sarah, Rachel, Clare, Alison and Nicola. Also Louise (much used as a second name) and Julie.

In my mother's generation, 1940s/50s, it was all Janets and Susans.

I think Debbie and Jackie were of the 60s.

The 90s gave us many Chloes and Harry and Josh.

My impression of the 00s is Ruby, Lily, Mia, Jake and Zac.

This is really interesting, without being judgemental about those names at all. How is that so many people alight on the same name as the obvious one for their child? There's always a sense of avoiding the most popular and moving on to the next thing but, as with fashion, there is a zeitgeist that somehow steers everyone in the same direction. There's also a conscious choice to return to the names of a previous era, so knowing what those were is helpful.

I'm part of this too. I've had names in my head for about 15 years which were quite unusual at the time but most of which have become much more popular recently. Because I've left til now to have children, I'm either going to have to drop a long-standing favourite, or accept that there will be three others in their year at school.

CeliaDeBohun · 29/02/2012 10:52

Also Louise (much used as a second name)

Back in 1996, I had a temp booking at the local tertiary college inputting data of all of that year's UCAS applications. Probably two out of three girls at that college had Louise as a middle name Shock I expect if the same exercise were done in fifteen years time, most of the middle names would be Rose or May.

MsF1t · 29/02/2012 10:56

Where has this Finley thing come from? Never met any apart from my Dad and my nephew (family name, though spelled a but differently).

Everyone seemed to be called Sharon/Tracy/Michelle/Gillian/Alison when I was at school...

user59457812 · 29/02/2012 10:56

This is a bit of a depressing thread for those of us about to drop and who've just sorted out our name lists. Interestingly, my own first name and middle name have been mentioned in different posts with totally opposite connotations, so it shows there's no consistent 'rule'.

Also, some of the negative comments about over-use don't resonate at all. We don't know a single Zac (and live in a very middle-class area of SE England). As for comments that it's a trendy name and biblical ones have more longevity, Zachary IS biblical...just saying...

I'm going to stop looking before I get so depressed I have to scrap my carefully considered name choices and just call the baby 'baby' because I'm too put off by judgemental comments to choose Sad

user59457812 · 29/02/2012 11:16

Actually, as so many of you seem to have strong opinions on what's over-used/chavvy/will date, I'm assuming you've all made impeccable name choices of your own?

So spill! Help us poor unoriginal, taste-free mums-to-be with what you think are fail-safe, original names for this generation...

lottiegb · 29/02/2012 11:21

We're in the same position HotPink and I'd ignore 'judgement', you have to accept that not everyone will like any choice of name, so choose what you want.

I have noticed though that some of the names discussed a lot on MN, so which appear to be becoming very popular, may be increasing but are still outside the top 100. Also, looking at regional variation, they are more representative of London than anywhere else.

I've seen my favourites dropping like flies as they've gone up the popularity charts, I've met people with them or others have used them. The one little used family name I thought I was safe with was mentioned a couple of months ago in relation to a 'celeb'. Bah!

CeliaDeBohun · 29/02/2012 11:26

I'm going to stop looking before I get so depressed I have to scrap my carefully considered name choices and just call the baby 'baby' because I'm too put off by judgemental comments to choose

If other peoples' views on your prospective DC's name bother you that much then you may as well call him or her 'Baby' because there is no name that somebody, somewhere won't dislike :) My DS has an old fashioned 'dad' name that just sounds dated, not cool and retro, to most peoples' ears. I've seen plenty of comments on here about it being dated, dull, ugly sounding etc. So what? DH and I still love it and that's all that matters. Honestly, don't take it so personally.

lottiegb · 29/02/2012 11:27

That's just what everyone does though and everyone here is using excellent recent hindsight. Chloe is a nice name, it's just that lots of people thought so at the same time.

You'd have to go classic or unusual to avoid the possibility of being part of the next big trend but you can't prevent the possibility that some new celeb will make the name forever theirs or a known one will use it, sparking a copycat trend.

MonaLotte · 29/02/2012 11:30

Ds2 is Findlay as it is my Grandmother's maiden name. We call him Fin for short and I couldn't give a toss whether it makes some people's "teeth curl" Hmm when they hear me call him that.

It's lovely to know that there is something else I am being judged for as a parent, this has really brightened my day! Thanks for letting me know how ubiquitous and common place my son's name is.

CeliaDeBohun · 29/02/2012 11:38

Ds2 is Findlay as it is my Grandmother's maiden name. We call him Fin for short and I couldn't give a toss whether it makes some people's "teeth curl" when they hear me call him that.

It's lovely to know that there is something else I am being judged for as a parent, this has really brightened my day! Thanks for letting me know how ubiquitous and common place my son's name is.

I thought you couldn't give a toss? Confused
You're being ridiculously oversensitive anyway.

MonaLotte · 29/02/2012 11:49

Thanks I will add oversensitive to my list of shortcomings Confused

MadameCholetWasMyFavourite · 29/02/2012 11:51

I am a child of the 60's - (5 Sarahs in my class of 15 girls, immediately following the birth of the Queen's niece). My name, however, did not become no. 1 in the popularity charts until the late 70's. As a result, those that know me by name only, automatically make assumptions about my age - leading to poorly hidden surprise if we ever meet in person.

takeonboard · 29/02/2012 12:07

Sad my DS's name is on nearly everyones list! Everyone thought it was very unusual/original when he was born 10 years ago...now nearly every 5 year old boy has the same name!

I am so glad I wasn't on MN when we were name choosing as I would have been completely paranoid Smile

anewmotivatedme · 29/02/2012 12:26

hotpinkgingham - my daughter is called Lauren, which I've read on mumsnet numerous times, that it is chavvy.

I don't want to out myself, but my son's name is a name that was popular in my Dad's generation (it is one of David, Hugh, Stephen, Christopher). I think you just need to choose the name you love, and be done with it. There will always be someone who doesn't like it.

othersideofchannel · 29/02/2012 12:29

"Actually, as so many of you seem to have strong opinions on what's over-used/chavvy/will date, I'm assuming you've all made impeccable name choices of your own?"

I'm not sure I can claim to have made an 'impeccable' name choice myself but ds's name was only used 13 times last year so is clearly not a 'trendy' name! It may not be to everyone's taste, but we love it Smile.

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