DH and I both like this name but it is a bit long for everyday use imo.
The trouble is DH thinks it should be shortened to Nat and I think Nate. There are two problems here, one is that I know a female Nat and it will always remind me of her and secondly that DH's name is Matt and I think the rhyming thing is too much.
Can you think of any better nicknames? Preferably not Neil!
... or Nathan....