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please help Esme or Belle/Bella??

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AvasLovelyMummy · 26/05/2011 10:46

Me and DH really struggling with girls name for baby number 2.
We both aagree on these names just not sure the more I say them, both are very unusual around our area. Help is very much needed! Thank u

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DaisyHayes · 26/05/2011 11:01

They are both names from the Twilight novels. So actually very 'on-trend' at the moment. They may be unusual now, but probably there will be a few of them the same age as your baby when she is born.

Belle and Bella are NMs for Isobel, which is massively popular.

Would you be saying Ez-mee or Ez-may? And will you be bothered by some people calling her the 'wrong' version?

tammytoby · 26/05/2011 11:02

They're both not my taste. Not sure how to 'help' - do you want us to say which one WE would choose of offer you other suggestions?

AvasLovelyMummy · 26/05/2011 11:16

I think the twilight link has just been a coincidence. It would be Ez-may and yes I would correct if it wasn't pronounced correctly.
I'm open to suggestions we really struggled with girl names last time but come up with one just in time.

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pilates · 26/05/2011 11:23

Esme is the name I prefer.

DaisyHayes · 26/05/2011 11:24

Is your daughter called Ava? That is also quite popular (not that this is necessarily a problem), so perhaps don't worry too much about how 'used' or otherwise her sister's name is.

I think Ava and Esmé sounds good.

Ava and Bella is too vowel-ey at the ends and I dislike Belle as it it is a very 'princessey' sort of name.

Hedwig3 · 26/05/2011 11:31

Bella

valiumbandwitch · 26/05/2011 11:35

I like both.

Is it to go with Ava?

In that case, I think Bella, she sounds more like the sister of Ava!

Mrsmackie · 26/05/2011 11:39

Both very popular but both pretty - think I prefer Bella though

AvasLovelyMummy · 26/05/2011 11:59

Yes its to go with Ava, I do seem to be going with bella but I think within time it'll just get shortend to belle? Thanks for your help everyone!

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HHxx · 27/05/2011 11:22

I always thought it was pronounced ez-may??

But Esme is nicer than Bella I think.

TobyLerone · 27/05/2011 11:25

If you want it pronounces as ez-may, you need to put an accent over the 'e'. Esmé.

My daughter is Esme, without the accent, so ez-me. Far nicer and less pretentious, I think Grin

TobyLerone · 27/05/2011 11:25

*pronounced

OTheHugeManatee · 27/05/2011 11:26

If you call your child Esme or Bella you will be forever suspected of being one of those Twihard weirdos. It's a shame, as they're both lovely names, but that's not an association I'd want.

GwendolineMaryLacey · 27/05/2011 11:28

Much prefer Bella, can't see the attraction in Esme at all, it sounds like someone sneezing!

TobyLerone · 27/05/2011 11:30

True, OTHM. Which is a shame. I was talking about this with someone yesterday, and saying that hopefully my daughter (who was named after my grandmother, not a character in a wanky book!) will have missed the rush, being 10.

IWantToBeAFairyWhenIGrowUp · 28/05/2011 13:33

I like all of them, however, I prefer Belle (just cause Beauty & The Beast is my fave Disney film).

Youcantaffordme · 28/05/2011 16:15

There's a Ruth Rendell book with a character called Ismay. Not seen it as a forename before, but it's probably a variation of Esmé. Could be used if you want to dodge the Twilight association.

oohlaalaa · 28/05/2011 16:22

Esme

Boogiemumma · 28/05/2011 17:02

Esme is my fav and I'm surte I won't be the only person who has never watched / read Twilight or has no idea what they're called

Prinpo · 28/05/2011 17:20

Esme, pronounced Ez-may. Lovely name, goes really well with Ava.

Although Bella and Esme are both Twilight characters, given that you're only choosing one name I don't think people will make the connection.

UrsulaBuffay · 28/05/2011 17:27

Esme.

Belle & Bella a bit ubiquitous.

5DollarShake · 30/05/2011 03:51

Esmé pronounced Es-may. Unless, of course, you also pronounce Reneé 'Renny' and paté 'patty'.

Belle/a much more over-used.

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