Name Accident

[LisMcA]

Hi, I accidently let slip to my mother our baby girl name. she pulled a face that would curdle milk and said forthrightly it "didn't go" with our surname.

DH & 1 both love it and were trying to keep it under our hats for this very reason. It's not even a silly name!

What to do??

It is up to you and your DH what you call your child.

Ignore Pretend you misheard?

Unless it spells something rude or really really sounds awful. In what way does it not go?

I honestly don't know! We have a Mac surname and the name ends in a ee sound.

I want to speak to her about it but don't want to make it a big issue before DC arrives. I'm really kicking myself for letting slip now!

Ignore everyone else's opinion. If they don't like it. Tough.

ignore her def! Your child, your choice

She just didn't like it and made up the not-going-with-surname thing. Ignore her. She will grow to love it when her beautiful grandchild arrives!

she'll get over it
"let slip" a few more - horrors - and then she'll be delighted

Its up to you what you call your child.

FWIW I dont see anything wrong with an ee ending name and then a Mc surname.

My mum's response to DD's name before she was born was "You can't call a child Lydia, it's a dreadful name". Well we did and she suits it and my mum has kept her trap shut ever since :)

so intriguing, will you come back after she is born and tell us what the offensive name was?!

I've yet to come up with a name that my dh doesn't pull a face at :-)

tell her to bog off. My parents are ughing ours boy's name - and i told them, politely, to bog off!

My best friend growing up had an 'ee' name and a Mac surname and it was never an issue, it did (and does still) sound lovely. Take no notice.

My DD has an ee name and a McSurname

It sounds lovely

How rude of your Mother! Unless you are actually saying "what do you think of this name?", I can't understand people who think they can put their two penneth in & slate a name you have got your heart set on.

Stick to your guns.

Oh & one other thing...... what is the name???

Whilst I was pregnant my dad criticised our name choice so many times... The first time he came to see DS in the hospital, he said, "Hello Bryn, come to Pops for a cuddle" and he's never looked back since!

She'll come round, because she'll get used to it.

The name is Phoebe (if anyone doesn't like it I don't want to know please :) )

Don't think I'll mention it again until the arrival. Never know, it could be a boy and all this will have been for nothing!!

Thanks for your advice! It's a big responsibility naming someone for life!

I think it's a lovely name so I would go with it. Once your little one arrives and you call her that name it will only take a few hours and your mum won't be able to see her as anything other than Phoebe.

Phoebe is lovely. And I don't see a problem putting it with a Mac surname either.

Phoebe isn't a name I'd choose, but it's certainly not a bad name! It's nice, and I don't see the problem with it in combination with a Mac name.

Ignore, ignore! :)

Can see nothing at all that could be offensive about Phoebe! It goes fine with Mac names too.

Phoebe is lovely

There's nowt wrong with Phoebe. Honestly, I feel pissed off with your Mum on your behalf! Is she this overbearing all the time?

Caro1302 Lydia is a GORGEOUS name. im compiling a name list for the Bump and may have to steal it!

and Phoebe is lovely OP. she wont care when she's handed her grandchild for the first time!

Phoebe is a lovely name! Ignore your mum its nothing to do with her anyway