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Ainsley for a girl?

24 replies

TotorosOcarina · 31/08/2010 19:08

I think its cute. WDYT?

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MentalFloss · 31/08/2010 19:11

I like it, think its slightly different but not too OTT iyswim?

horatia · 31/08/2010 19:12

I know it's officially a unisex name, but I think of it as a male name because of Ainsley Harriott (haven't heard of any other Ainsleys). It also sounds like a surname or place name.

thisisyesterday · 31/08/2010 19:12

makes me think of Ainsley Harriet

deemented · 31/08/2010 19:12

Yes - my midwife when i had dd and then ds3 was called Ainsley and she was a lovely, fantastic lady.

Definate yes Smile

minipie · 31/08/2010 19:13

Unfortunately I just think of Ainsley Harriot. So it's a no from me. nice name apart from that though.

amberleaf · 31/08/2010 19:17

Makes me think of an Ainsley i knew as a child-total bitch sorry! can still see her mean face [shudder]

TotorosOcarina · 31/08/2010 19:25

meh, I'm not super keen anyways Grin

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sweetnitanitro · 31/08/2010 19:25

I know an Ainsleigh who is lovely :) I think it's more popular in Scotland where she's from. She's about 30 I think, don't know of any children named Ainsley/Ainsleigh, boys or girls.

SirBoobAlot · 31/08/2010 20:20

Ainsley Harriot from me too, I'm afraid.

How about Astrid if you want a slightly different "A" name?

hatebeak · 31/08/2010 20:23

It's okay but I do remember there was a great(if Republican) character in The West Wing called Ainsley, which makes it seem more appealing.

AinslieWithTwoXChromosomes · 31/08/2010 22:08

It's mostly known as a girl's name where I come from (I grew up in New Zealand and am in my 30s - and female). But here in the UK, people do, amusingly, expect me to be tall, male and able to cook.

Having said that, it wasn't widely known when I was growing up, and I hated it because I constantly had to enunciate it and contend with people calling me Angie/Ashley/Anneliese (go figure the last one).

I found that it was better-known in Australia (as a girls' name), thanks to the quasi-notorious Ainslie Gotto (some grand old men of politics attributed her influence on the PM of the day to her being hot stuff rather than her grey matter - but that was all before my time!)

At least people here in the UK are familiar with the name - I just have to say 'just like Ainsley H but different spelling and I'm a girl' and they usually go 'oh right'.

As for the spelling, I think the first name spelling variants are along regional (Scots vs English) rather than gender lines.

Oh, and I have met three other Ainsley/Ainslies (all female). One was nice, two were bitches! :o

LadyBee · 31/08/2010 22:13

I'm also a New Zealander and my best friend growing up was an Ainsley (not you Ainslie though..spelt with a 'y' she was). Her parents were English though. I liked it. My name is also unusual and we liked being the only ones in our classes with our names..unlike the 5 Rachaels, 4 Nicolas and 7 Michaels Smile

Psammead · 01/09/2010 09:43

I know an Ainsley and she's lovely. Have nothing but positive associations with this name. She was always a bit shy about her name though and would introduce herself as 'Ainsley, but I 'ent a big black chef'.

Always get a lovely, whimsical feeling about the name.

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BalloonSlayer · 01/09/2010 09:53

I know an Ainsley who is lovely. I think it is a beautiful name.

She is in her fifties now; she told me it was always a girl's name when and where she grew up but became popular as a boy's name in the West Indian community.

I'd have happily called DD Ainsley.

seeker · 01/09/2010 10:12

Never choose a name because it's 'cute". Teenagers and adult women don't want to be "cute"

Kathleen123 · 01/09/2010 11:36

no, IMHO Ainsley is a boys name.

TotorosOcarina · 01/09/2010 11:40

Well thats the basis of my other 3 kids names seeker so I guess they are in for trouble, lol!

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pinkthechaffinch · 01/09/2010 11:42

Really nice and there's a strong female character called Ainsley in 'The Edible Woman' by Margaret Atwood.

WillowFae · 01/09/2010 14:11

I'd assume the child was a boy.

MoominMymbleandMy · 01/09/2010 14:28

I know an Ainslie from NZ and she is lovely. So it is now a girl's name to me and a pretty one too.

AinslieWithTwoXChromosomes · 01/09/2010 15:02

LadyBee, cor, another one! Wouldn't it be funny if I'd met your Ainsley (and I'm sure they're all nice, really, just misunderstood by me) - but the ones I knew had Kiwi or Aussie parents, rather than English parents, or, in the case of the nice one, Samoan parents. Funnily, I got the impression that it was becoming popular as a name for a girl among Maori and Pacific Islander families!

Um, sorry about the hijack, OP - potted summary, I hated my name as a kid because nobody could pronounce it, but now that it doesn't give me trouble, I don't mind it. If you like it, I reckon you should go for it :)

MoominMymbleandMy · 01/09/2010 16:43

Are you my Ainslie who has sneakily name-changed then?Smile I just assumed it must be popular in NZ!

AinslieWithTwoXChromosomes · 01/09/2010 21:10

Er, yes - Gidday to ya, Moomin' - and aw, shucks! :)

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