I am 20 weeks pg and have just found out the lo is a girl, so am really excited and now able to start thinking about names. The problem is that I rang my 83 year old grandma the other day to let her know, and somehow (a sort of joke gone wrong!) she has got the idea that I want to name the baby after her.... Patricia Mary. She has now rung everyone telling them that she is delighted that the baby will be named for her and that my partner had decided it because he thinks she is so fabulous!! This last bit a total fabrication, but hey - at 83, why let the facts spoil a great story?! I have no intention of naming my baby this - had been considering Mathilda (although still early days) but dont want to upset my sweet grandma, especially as I think this has given her a real reason for going on. What to do??!