Wow everyone, thank you for all your replies!
It's funny doing something like this, helps me to realise which names I really want to use
But, just for fun, here's a tally, in order of popularity:
Boys:
Benedict: 18 votes
Felix/Toby: 12
Elijah: 11
Ezra: 9
Leonard: 1
Girls:
Cecilia/Claudia/Phoebe: 13
Margot/Sadie: 9
Isadora: 6
Mary: 5
Jacqueline: 1
Marlene: 0
Sooo....(drum roll please) you have all confirmed my love for Benedict. Was a bit concerned about possible nicknames (ie Bendy Dick) and people thinking that I had named him after the Pope but it's such a strong lovely name that I cant not use it. Benedict Elijah maybe?
With the girls, it's between Claudia, Phoebe and Margot. Do love Cecilia but just cant bring myself to use it for some reason.
Claudia Isadora? Phoebe Mary? Claudia Mary? Margot Isadora?
now to inform dh of my decision