I think she’s guilty.
There are too many facts that for me together make her look guilty.
Not being a known forager but going to the located of death cap mushrooms more than once after sightings of them.
Then buying a dehydrator.
The photos of them and postings in a true crime group.
Disposing of the dehydrator once realising that they’d picked up on the DCM poisoning.
DCM are only detectable in the system for 48hrs after consuming them. As food poisoning symptoms come on hours afterwards, with you then getting better for days before getting worse, there was a good chance they wouldn’t have detected the cause, thus not getting rid of the dehydrator prior to this.
They were admitted to different hospitals, and there was a chance they wouldn’t have communicated and found out the link.
A different colour plate for herself, and not getting ill despite eating the same meal.
Keeping the kids away from the meal.
On being told how seriously ill the others were, and the suspected cause, not wanting to be admitted but wanting to go off and sort our things that she could have called someone else to do - what’s more important than your life?
Apparently feeding the kids leftovers the next day after knowing that people had been ill after eating the meal. Scraping off mushrooms would not have stopped them leaching into the meat. Aside from that, I think they had the leftover meat that hadn’t touched the mushrooms, but at the point she fed them the meat how did she know that the meat wasn’t the cause of the illness? The meat would be my first suspicion - unless I knew the illness was caused by something else…
Not wanting her kids to go in and be checked straight away. This is a massive red flag to me. You’d want them to be thoroughly checked if there was even the tiniest chance they’d had a tiny bit of the same thing. Especially given the health history she’s mentioned, where something was dismissed with one child.
The lies to get them there, saying there she had a serious health issue she needed to talk about. Telling them she had cancer at the meal, a lie. Then later lying and saying it was actually weight loss surgery she was booked in for - another lie.
I think she still hoped her ex would turn up to the meal - judging by the message she sent after finding out that he wasn’t attending which looked like she was trying to make him feel guilty. Thus carrying on with it - plus she didn’t really have much time to go out and get ingredients and make another special meal, she had already bought/ got ingredients from various locations. 12 hours notice was nothing to repurchase things and cook when you consider the effort she’d gone to.
Her ex’s mystery illness prior to this - if she was involved it would have given her extra confidence that she could get away with it.
The messages about the family saying that they were a lost cause and she was done with them etc suggest she was at the end of her tether with them. I don’t think it is normal to say such things.
The above don’t make her come across as rational.
No apparent interest in how they were. The fake tears in the interview afterwards - checking her fingers for tears!
I don’t buy the panic - panic would make me want to get myself and my DC checked, and if it was accidental I would be giving as much information as possible, not running off to hide phones, wipe them and dispose of dehydrators.
She had previously been an air traffic controller - I’d be surprised if someone prone to panic would be able to get such a a job.
the lying about being ill (no toilet stops on a long journey) and going out in white trousers with diarrhoea. Telling the nurse her urine was diarrhoea.
I’m sure there’s more I’ve forgotten.