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are any of your DSs interested in your crafty skills?

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miamla · 22/06/2008 11:59

I'm currently growing a DS, due in a few weeks time. Both DP and I are very handy with our hands. I inspired DP to have a go, his first project (with very small assistance from me) was making himself a suit to wear for a friend's wedding! I'm so proud!
anyway, i digress... I guess i've already answered my question given that i've brought out the crafty side of DP but i'm concerned that my future DS won't be interested. Don't get me wrong, the most important thing is that he's happy but it would be amazing if he shared my hobby with me.
I only ask you about your DSs because i've seen lots of threads on here about themed craft parties for DDs, making sewing boxes for DDs birthdays but no mention of DSs. Is it not cool for boys to like crafty stuff? I guess not really so i'm just looking for a story from one of you to give me hope for the future!

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Miaou · 22/06/2008 12:10

Will let you know mia - my dses are 2.10 and 10 months, so a bit young yet!

You can't force an interest if it's not there though.

Ds1 loves to draw, and does incredibly intricate patterns (he's not mastered drawing actual things yet, just loves the process of putting pencil to paper!).

Dd1 and dd2 are quite arty/crafty. I just make sure that the materials are to hand and guide them through the process if they want to make something. Dd2 has made knitted bootees and a hat for her doll, and dd1 has just made an appliqued pincushion.

Well done on your dp though, what a fantastic first project! I just made a suit for myself to wear to a wedding - it's a great sense of achievement I must say. Would love to see a pic of the finished article!

gillybean2 · 25/06/2008 01:20

My own ds enjoys making things both at school and at home. He has won trophey's at our local village fete for handicraft entries.

I also have equal numbers of boys and girls at the art&craft club I run at school (ages 7-11). I do a wide range of activities and as long as they're not 'girlie' the boys are happy to join in with all the projects I've done so far.

For example we made finger puppets last week. I gave them templates, felt material, glue and lots of bits to stick on (wool, eyes, pipe cleaners etc) and let them get on with it. The girls made princesses, butterflies and fluffy dogs. The boys made aliens, ninja, spiders and ghosts. The older boys actually requested needle and thread so they could stitch their puppets rather than glue them!

When we did air drying clay the boys made things like penguins, turtles and snakes. And when we do painting or drawing they tend to do cars, aliens, dinosaurs. I put out a range of colouring pictures too, the girls go for mermaids and barbie, the boys go for spiderman and pirates. Though both seems to like scoobydoo.

What I'm trying to say is that if you're hoping for fluffy, cute and pretty things with nice matching colours then think again!

I find some of the boys have trouble deciding what to make and need more encouragement and ideas of possible options. The girls tend to be more perfectionist and when it goes 'wrong' or they don't like the results want to start all over again!

I tend to also fine most of the children that come to my art group (boys and girls) are not the sporty kind and don't want to join the after school sports clubs. But they love art group and can't wait to find out what's next week activity and are really upset if they miss it for any reason.

Saying that I think most children given the opportunity and encouragement like to have a go. A lot of parents don't like messy stuff like paint and glue at home. I'm happy to do it and friends children often go home having made something here, even those you wouldn't think would give it a try.

I still have paintings and drawings on the wall my son did at playschool and I have a cabinet full of clay models, loo roll creations, wool weaving masterpieces etc. He knows I am very proud of whatever he makes.

My sister does encourage her children to do it, but tends to micromanage them and grab the paintbrush if they start going too beserk and 'spoiling' it. Their results tend to be far too perfect for children of their ages imo.

If your ds is into creating things then by all means encourage him. But let him go where he wants with it. Whatever the results hang them on the wall and show them off. He'll be wanting to make more in no time. Well once he's old enough to hold a paintbrush or crayon.

Word of warning though. It's worth spending the extra money on washable felt tip pens. Oh and paint doesn't always come out even when it's meant to washable!

Gilly

meridian · 25/06/2008 11:41

my DS who is 4.5 likes to mess around with my beads and knitting but he is a typical boy and just likes to mess around and run around or make a mess instead of crafting... but he does like to watch me so I hold out hope that there might be an artistic side to him one day...

ranting · 25/06/2008 11:45

I have a 14 year old who's not so much crafty as arty, he's quite happy to benefit from my craftiness in the form of crochet beanies (with anarchy signs on) and skull cuffs but he's not interested in knitting and crocheting or dressmaking per se.

But he can work a sewing machine and if I get stuck on a sewing machine, he can work out what to do. He is though, much more interested in Art (particularly cubism) and wants to go to Art College when he's finished his Gcses and his As.

morethanyoubargainfor · 25/06/2008 11:52

my ds 5.8 has never really shown any intrest in arts or crafts, until 4 weeks ago, and i have bought so much much stuff for him and there is no stopping him! every where he goes his pad and pens have to go to, the indian restuarnt, in the car on school runs, etc we can't stop him now. i guess he has the kast 5 years to catch up on!!!

jeangenie · 25/06/2008 16:38

gillybean that was a great post

it's all down to the child...most kids in my experience like a bit of make'n'do and if offereed a creative environment without having it rammed down their throats (not suggesting you were planning that mind) will get involved

I've just done a sewing (teddybears) workshop in DD's school - attended by both boys and girls (ks1 so 5-7yo) and the boys loved it...even the "hard" ones

do bear in mind it can take until age 3 or 4 for them to really show an interest...so don't panic if he isn't doing too much before then

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