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Making my own wedding invites. ARGHH!

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WhatsGoingOnEh · 17/03/2015 01:49

We're getting married end of June. On a very tight budget. I fell in love with some Victorian-style invites online, but they would've cost £300! So I decided to make my own. Bought the card, envelopes, ribbons and paper for £30 in the craft shop and was unbearably smug about my 90% saving.

That was before I started making them. Now, 3 sodding WEEKS later, I'm in invite Hell. I've made 15 of the 20 the evening invites, but I still have all the daytime ones to do and I'm very aware that as every day passes, more and more of our guests will have booked their summer holiday. (I told myself I'd do a save the date email. I didn't.)

I have no idea how to lay out the middle of the cards (with all the info stuff on), so I'm faffing around unproductively to delay doing it. The house has gone to shit, I have gone to shit - I haven't showered for two days. WTAF. Today I spent SIX HOURS making a MAP. Who reads maps on invites these days?! Even if they have got a hand-drawn illustration and use a really nice font.

I haven't got any design software as its only a hobby, so I'm doing it all in Microsoft Publisher, which i've had to teach myself as I go along. I completely underestimated how many materials I'd waste practise on, so I'm all out of paper AND ribbon (£2 a roll!) and have had to buy two new cartridges of ink. I'll have spent over £100 by the time I'm through, which would've bought perfectly nice invites from Prontaprint. Hmm My printer is under my desk, so for a few hours a day I'm on my hands and knees on the floor, feeding individual sheets of card through it, and sobbing when they suddenly catch badly and lurch through at an angle.

And on top of this, I'll have to go through it all again with the Orders of Service, AND I told the florist that, "I'd love to paint my own pots for all the table decorations for 70 guests!!" WHY.

Do any of you ever take on too much?

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tealady · 17/03/2015 07:53

If you are really not enjoying the process of making your own invites, how about writing off the cost and just paying to get them done. It might save you lots of stress!

PurpleWithRed · 17/03/2015 07:59

I did get slightly seduced by the idea of diy wedding stuff but luckily I came to my senses before any serious damage was done to my mental health or my fiancée. .

Cut your losses, pay a printer. Those brides in the mags who crochet their own wedding veils are not ordinary folk like you and me.

twentyten · 17/03/2015 08:04

You poor thing. Think about what really matters- what you and I your guests will remember is how lovely the day was and how happy and beautiful the couple looked. Don't sweat the small stuff.

RunsWithScissors · 17/03/2015 08:05

Just a bit stressful then Wink

Deep breath

Send a save the date email now. Then you can stop for a day or so withot worrying about people making other plans.

Then, decide if the DIY route is the way you want to go. If not, write off the cost and find another option.

If you'd like to give it a go, is there anyone that can help with assembly?

I can look at the inside layout of info if you'd like.

But if it's too stressful, then it isn't worth the "savings".

ThinkIveBeenHacked · 17/03/2015 08:07

Some things really are worth paying for.

Write it off, start anew. Order from wherever it was that was 100, send a Save thw Date email today and then have a brew.

ClearlyMoo · 17/03/2015 08:11

Hold a invite making party! Get some wine and nibbles. Invite the girls over. Get them to help with assembly and addressing.

Please Abandon the orders of service. Get printed ones. Accept that they won't match!

I did almost exactly the same as you - because I love crafting not because I wanted to save cash but it was so stressful.

Send the save the date email now.

You won't regret sending the email OR abandoning the orders of service.

Get the ladies in to help with the invites. It was fun and they felt honoured to be involved!

BikeRunSki · 17/03/2015 08:11

Get a qupte from a local printer. I bet it's far cheaper than you think. Use the invitations you've already made for your nearest and dearest. The guests just really need to know where and when. I can't remember the dedigb of a single wedding invitation other than my own.

frangipani13 · 17/03/2015 08:12

Perhaps on etsy or ebay you might find a reasonable supplier who can create what you like?

cathpip · 17/03/2015 08:16

And if you seriously want to continue, forget the directions map and on the insert for the RSVP, head it as RSVP and directions, I just did a friends invites and on the reply insert wrote if directions were needed please contact and put an email address, so many people have sat nav these days so if the wedding venue has a postcode they will find it!

WhatsGoingOnEh · 17/03/2015 11:35

Give up the six-hour map?!

Thanks for all your replies. I don't know if I should abandon the invited as they're almost ready. Plus I really don't have £100+ to buy any! I really don't.

Sending the email is a very good ideas as I can ask for addresses too. (I'm not organised enough to keep an address book!)

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BikeRunSki · 17/03/2015 15:06

OK
Do the invitations for the prettiness and permanance. Just put RSVP on them, you don't need a sroerate card. Email the map to those who are coming closer to the date. You could even scan/photograph the one you've made and send that.

75 wedding invitations cost me £15, 15 years ago from a local "back street" . Simple and single sided, but they got the message out.

JassyRadlett · 17/03/2015 15:16

Poor you!

We did ours, and yes took ages. I think we saved by getting the design printed by vistaprint and then doing the assembly etc ourselves - I don't think it cost much, definitely cheaper than ink, but it was 5 years ago....

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