Hiya, am rediculously excited I have just finished my first ever crochet project for my Mum as a Christmas present, it isn't very good It is a striped scarf that goes in an out a lot! But I learned how to do some little roses tonight to put on the ends and I know she will love it because I have spent about 200 hours on it lol. But i used the wrong wool for a lot of it and it's really stiff, I do not dare wash it, can anyone recommend a way to get it softer please?