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Anyone else feel crafting guilt?

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Cinnamonthecat · 09/11/2010 13:54

I realised at 1.30 that I had a whole hour before DS home from school so am using it to put the finishing touches to an christmas apron I'm making for my sister. I just realised whilst at the ironing board that I have this constant feeling I should be doing something else ie cleaning the house (did a massive laundry this morning and washed kitchen floor) It's taking all the pleasure out of it for me Sad Anyone else ever feel this?

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rosie17 · 10/11/2010 11:15

Stop this feeling guilty at once! Having little creative outlets make you feel good so it will be an even better Mum/partner since you are that much calmer and happier SmileHouse work is relentless it will never be finished so let it slid once in a while.

bumpybecky · 10/11/2010 11:16

are you mad?!

absolutely no guilt here Grin life it far too short to worry about housework!

coldcomfortHeart · 10/11/2010 16:30

Hmm the house is falling to rack and ruin around us, cobwebs, crumbs... do feel bad about it at times but come the weekend we both chip in and do a big clean and then it's back to sewing all the opportunities I can in the week! I have a table at a craft fair in 2 weeks' time (my first) and have no idea re stock levels- keep panicking and trying to make more!

soccerwidow · 10/11/2010 18:08

yes
& I had the MIL round to babysit for me this afternoon - lots of little comments about the state of the house. Which for once was actually clean & tidy
(just as long as you don't look in my bedroom Grin}

Cinnamonthecat · 10/11/2010 20:54

Thanks to all for the support! In fact even just hopping on to MN and typing that in made me feel a lot better yesterday (when I reread it after posting thought it made me sound like a total whinge -promise I'm not!) Stuck it out with the apron and finished it. Feeling a lot better now. Coldcomfort good luck with the craft fair :)

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Quiltingmoomin · 11/11/2010 06:10

So glad you started this thread - I thought it was just me and my overactIve catholic guilt complex! I make deals with myself - clean the kitchen and then knit/ sew. At the moment I've got guilt pangs about the state of my stash - even that needs cleaning up !

coldcomfortHeart · 11/11/2010 12:05

oh god don't start on the fabric/felt/stuffing mountains that swamp the living room, even very laid-back DH has commented on having to step over bags of fabric!

Thanks Cinnamonthecat, I am sure I'll have overlooked something but finding this book really helpful.

Cinnamonthecat · 12/11/2010 21:53

that book looks brilliant-there's another thread on here about selling online that it would be worth a mention on. Quiltingmoomin I make those deals all the time too-and I have very definite catholic influences so you are probably correct there, glad I'm not alone in this! :)

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ConstanceFelicity · 12/11/2010 21:55

Yes. I have just been given an antique sewing machine of my great great grandmother's, and I am ignoring all dust and work deadlines. But I am in love!

LoveMyGirls · 13/11/2010 13:11

I clicked on this thinking it was a thread about feeling guilty for not doing craft stuff, for eg this morning I've dont nothing constructive at all, had a lie in, breakfast, cuddled and chatted with dh and dc's, mn, chatted to a couple of friends, had a bath and now I'm having a cuppa and I'm feeling bad because I should be getting on with the painting I have started at art class the other day, I'm going to give it to my friend for christmas but here I am just sat here. I'm taking dc's to the library in a bit and I'm working tonight so I'm running out of time....still sat here though.......think I'm worried I can't do the painting I wanted to do because I'm not skilled/ confident enough....hummmm

Quiltingmoomin · 13/11/2010 17:33

I have to have a deadline and then I burn the midnight oil to meet it LoveMyGirls - so long as its fun it doesn't matter though - sounds like you've had a lovely day Grin

Cinnamonthecat · 17/11/2010 23:01

Laughing at the last two posts!! Yes, I have had the guilt both ways sadly! Constance you are so lucky. My nanny taught me to sew on her singer-one of those lovely clever ones that turn upside down so theres a flat surface when you're not using it. It left the family when she died despite my mam being her only daughter - I get sad/angry every time I think about it. Enjoy your lovely machine..:)

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