I went for my 12 week scan yesterday, my husband couldn't make it so a friend came with me. As the title of the thread shows, the results were not good.
It is my second pregnancy and last time the T21 was 1/4000 (don't remember T18) because of a combination of my bloods and the scan. This time, the bloods and scan bought it down from a base of 1/186 to 1/34. The chances of T18 are so so high at 1/5. I had the CVS there and then, and now have to wait until Friday or Tuesday (!) until we get the results.
Even if the results come back clear, the baby still has an increased bladder size and that could be a life-threatening problem. Although Professor Nicolaides seemed to think that the chances were low as the 'enlargement' was only just inside the abnormal category.
I'm feeling really scared. After the scan for our DD, it felt amazing but it didn't all feel real until I was about 36 weeks pregnant. This time I had thought how amazing the scan was because we saw everything, and that was our little baby. And now there might be something very serious wrong. I am also feeling terribly guilty because I think we would have a termination.
I'm finding it hard to deal with the idea of a negative outcome and what we would do.
Feeling so sad.
Ally