Background is I’m 31 and been TTC for over 2 years, no children, first 2 pregnancies ended in MC. Now on my 3rd pregnancy, had a scan at 8+4 and all was well, felt it was a good sign as my 2 previous pregnancies had both ended by that point but still incredibly nervous. We went to the 12 wk scan yesterday, biggest worry was we’d turn up and baby would’ve died but nope alive and kicking but I just knew when I saw them take the NT measurement it looked big, then she broke the news it was 5mm so at risk of chromosomal issues etc. I had opted for the screening so then went for bloods, now waiting to be told if low or high risk but MW was honest and said v likely high risk cos of the 5mm measurement and even if it was low risk because of that measurement they’d want to do further checks anyway. Spoke to the MW earlier and asked what next, she mentioned NIPT but I was honest and said I know that wouldn’t satisfy me even they came back low risk so just want to jump to diagnostic, so booked in for CVS Thursday (I know this comes with risk of MC but risk
seems v small and willing to take the risk).
Positive similar stories please of everything miraculously ending up ok?! Not feeling any hope at the mo and brain has already jumped to baby being so poorly they’ll soon die or we’re faced with TFMR. TIA x