Right sorry have just read the thread properly,
So, yes when they first found the 6.5mm nuchal they basically said in not so many words it was very unlikely to all be fine. After the CVs and a couple of heart scans up at st guys and Thomas's, the fetal medicine specialist was much more positive. I had regular scans for a while but they all looked completely normal. She said I could terminate anyway and some people would be without finding anything wrong I just couldn't. Thank god I didn't but the pregnancy and in all honesty the first couple of years of his life were bloody stressful.
As I'm sure you know, not all things show in utero, and some don't show at birth either. I was watching for every little thing. When he was about 6 weeks old it transpired he breathed REALLY fast, like all the time. Like respiratory distress type fast, but without being in distress. Cue loads more investigations over the next year or so. I of course was convinced it was something to do with the nuchal, but once again they couldn't find anything and over time it resolved. When they were investigating all that, one of the consultants said he looked "syndromic" ie basically saying maybe he had an underlying issue which totally freaked me out. Anyways, maybe he has got some tiny chromosome thing (lots of people do have normal variants) but he's honestly the most beautiful, sparky, funny, cute, clever, amazing little boy you've ever met so whatevs.
Stressful time though. Can't believe it's been that long, feels lukewarm yesterday.