Hello all 🙂
I am new to the site and wondered if anyone could share their experiences with me or advise me. I just turned 37 last month, and me and my husband have had 2 miscarriages in the past year, very early on, neither making it to 12 weeks. We were overjoyed to fall pregant again a few months ago, had no spotting this time, and had a lovely first 12 week scan with a strong heart beat apparently. I then got a call this Monday from the screening nurse to say that unfortunately I had come up in the high risk category for downs syndrome (1 in 84 chance), I was understandably very scared, and she explained that although I had scored on the low side of all the high risk markers, these coupled with my age had pushed my risk up. She gave me 3 options; do nothing and wait and see, go for a diagnostic amniocentesis test which will tell us 100 percent either way but carries a small risk of miscarriage, or have a harmony test (nipt) which is just a blood test which is not diagnostic but is 99% accurate, much more accurate than the 12 week screening test and has no miscarriage risk. We decided to go for the harmony blood test as I read good things about it and we didn't want to risk another miscarriage. Got the results back today, and absolutely devastated to have been told we are high risk. And shocked, we were told before the harmony test that our markers were still quite low, the fluid neck measurement was only 2.9, and I'm told high risk is 3.5. Also I know I'm older at 37, but I eat very well, have always exercised, and was told by the midwife I am the perfect weight for a low risk pregnancy. We have several friends who are having there first at 40 and 41 and had no problems. Now I have been given an appointment to have an amniocentesis diagnostic test (needle in the stomach) to give us a definitive yes or no. But the screening nurse has been very upfront with me and told me to expect the worst, as only 10 percent of woman who have a positive harmony test, go on to have the diagnostic test and get good news back from it. She basically said it is now 90% likely to be bad news. I am not asking anyone to sugar coat this for me, I can cope with the truth. But does anyone have any experience in this, or outcomes either way? Xxxxxxx