Hi everyone.
I am looking for a little bit of hope..
We are currently going through our 2nd pregnancy, the first one was very traumatic, I will try and explain it.
Last year we got pregnant after a lot of trying and at the first scan the NT was slightly high (3.1) but under the 3.5 threshold. We decided to go for the combined screening because of our age (35 at the time) and got a result of 1/2 for T21, there were also other abnormalities. After a very traumatic experience which included a CVS we decided to end the pregnancy at around 16 weeks. We were told it wasn't genetic and is very unlikely to happen again..
Fast forward to a year later. We managed to get pregnant again which was exciting but very scary because of previous experience. We had a scan at 11 weeks and baby looked fine and was offered NIPT due to previous pregnancy. The results came back earlier this week and T21 was lower chance but T18 (Edwards) came back as higher chance! We are devastated. We had a scan yesterday with a senior sennographer, we actually had 2 In there and fully expected no growth or visible soft markers (12w1day) but they couldn't see anything. They said if they didn't know about the NIPT results they wouldn't be worried about anything. I know after hours of research that baby might not show any markers until later on but we took a bit of hope away from seeing growth and normal NT (1.7). I have also read a lot into false positives for Edwards which we are clinging onto. We are having a scan at 13 weeks to check the baby again and will keep going for scans, as long as no markers, up to 15 weeks when we can then have the amnio test.
I think what I am looking for is for any other stories similar to ours, positive or negative.
My wife and me are still struggling from the previous trauma, my wife has been begging for counselling for months and the NHS have been terrible. We would go private but they keep promising to sort it out their end.