Hi all, I’ve never posted on here before, so bear with me! I’m 17 weeks pregnant with my first baby. All was going well until 3 days after my 12 week scan (which was seemingly fine). NT was 2.8mm so within threshold. I got told the baby has a 1:13 chance of DS, which was a massive shock. I’m 38 but am fit and healthy so (stupidly it seems) didn’t think I would be high risk. Having discussed with my partner, we decided we’d terminate if the baby has DS. He has 2 children already and we don’t think it would be fair to them, although I realise not everyone would make the same choice and fully respect that.
We decided to go for diagnostic tests to get a firm yes or no. At 14 weeks we had an unsuccessful attempt at a CVS (my placenta was in the wrong place), so were told we had to wait over Xmas until I could have an amniocentesis. I had this a week ago on Monday (as a side note- ouch, I can’t believe some people don’t find these painful- I started getting cramps immediately!), and the results came back in 3 days as inconclusive, because of the presence of my blood in the sample (the consultant had spotted this and sent my blood to the lab too).
So that was 9 days ago and I’m waiting for the full results. I am seriously struggling with the stress of this, particularly as I get close to a day where I might get results. I have a pretty stressful job (which I can normally handle when not pregnant and freaking out) and at the moment I’m finding it really hard to work. Has anyone else experienced this crazy level of stress whilst waiting? Normally I’d say I can handle things but this has totally thrown me. Apologies for the essay, but I’m really struggling and would appreciate any advice or assurance that this is normal!!
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NiceAsPi · 17/01/2024 13:49
primrose1234 · 22/03/2024 21:29
How's everyone's pregnancies going?
I am currently 15+1 weeks. At 12 weeks my NT levels measured at 3.8mm so I was referred to John Radcliffe Hospital. It is showing high risk 1:18 for Downs Syndrome and very low for Edwards and Patues 1:2600. At 13 weeks, I went in for a CVS but they couldn't do it due to the placenta positioning. The scan all looked good and showing no Down Syndrome features. Went back today for an Amniocentesis. They thoroughly checked the heart and done a check over which they were happy with. Just need to wait up to 5 days for my results.
The not knowing has been so hard. Hiding the pregnancy from our children (9 & 5) has been the hardest bit. Constantly telling them I'm not feeling well. Ive been hiding under oversized jumpers for weeks now 😢
NiceAsPi · 17/01/2024 13:49
Hi all, I’ve never posted on here before, so bear with me! I’m 17 weeks pregnant with my first baby. All was going well until 3 days after my 12 week scan (which was seemingly fine). NT was 2.8mm so within threshold. I got told the baby has a 1:13 chance of DS, which was a massive shock. I’m 38 but am fit and healthy so (stupidly it seems) didn’t think I would be high risk. Having discussed with my partner, we decided we’d terminate if the baby has DS. He has 2 children already and we don’t think it would be fair to them, although I realise not everyone would make the same choice and fully respect that.
We decided to go for diagnostic tests to get a firm yes or no. At 14 weeks we had an unsuccessful attempt at a CVS (my placenta was in the wrong place), so were told we had to wait over Xmas until I could have an amniocentesis. I had this a week ago on Monday (as a side note- ouch, I can’t believe some people don’t find these painful- I started getting cramps immediately!), and the results came back in 3 days as inconclusive, because of the presence of my blood in the sample (the consultant had spotted this and sent my blood to the lab too).
So that was 9 days ago and I’m waiting for the full results. I am seriously struggling with the stress of this, particularly as I get close to a day where I might get results. I have a pretty stressful job (which I can normally handle when not pregnant and freaking out) and at the moment I’m finding it really hard to work. Has anyone else experienced this crazy level of stress whilst waiting? Normally I’d say I can handle things but this has totally thrown me. Apologies for the essay, but I’m really struggling and would appreciate any advice or assurance that this is normal!!
NiceAsPi · 25/01/2024 15:55
Hey @Obione1 , firstly I just want to say that I’m sending you a massive virtual hug. I’m so sorry you’re having to deal with this. From what I’ve been told, the NIPT is good for picking up Down’s, but - it’s still only a screening test, so it’s not a definitive diagnosis (although obviously I’m no expert, and the scan result may suggest it’s more likely). It must be so stressful to have to wait until 32 weeks; do you have any options at all? (Don’t feel you have to answer that if you don’t wish to).
Thank you for asking, yes I did. On Monday I was told that the amazing news that my little girl doesn’t have any of the big three trisomies. I’ll be happier after my 20 week scan (it’s been such a bumpy ride so far) but I have to admit I’m very relieved.
I’m so sorry you’re feeling so traumatised, I very much hope for a good outcome for you x
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