hello so sorry to hear you are going through this too.
We had a lot of tests- amnio for infections etc, genetic, and 2 foetal MRIS which were able to say as much as possible that it was isolated ASP and not one of the (much worse) conditions that are linked. We had another MRI after birth (which was mainly to reassure us) and still had to have a check of his optic nerve a few weeks after birth (just the ophthalmologist having a look), and then we will have it checked again when he turns one. We also had glucose tests after birth for 24 hours, and have to have endocrine follow ups roughly annually throughout childhood, mainly monitoring growth. Apparently the latest our doc has seen problems come up is age 10. We were/ are not in the UK so not sure if it is the same there.
So far all has been well and he is a lovely baby, and meeting milestones so far touch wood. (I am super superstitious about this now!).
On the positive side, it seemed like the papers on ASP are generally working on older cases and it may be that with newer imaging they can be more confident that isolated ASP is really isolated, so the % with problems may be lower Than 15 nowadays - but of course can't say for sure. And of course no baby has a 0% chance of issues. Our neurologist spoke to an expert on ASP from Israel who said something like if it was her choice, based on what she knew about prognosis for isolate ASP, she would continue pregnancy. There is a paper which says it has been found a few times as an incidental finding in paediatric MRIs too. Recently my husband met a senior doctor who has it himself and is clearly fine! But I know there will of course be other people out there for whom this wasn't the case and it is a really hard decision of what is the best for you and your family.
It was/ is super stressful but counselling helped (which we still have every couple of months) and I'm able to be present in the moment much more now (newborn phase was really hard though).
I am not on mumsnet much but let me know if you want to PM/ chat some other way, and sorry again, it was the worst time of my life, and I can't imagine how it must be after a previous TMR as well.
Good luck with the investigations and your decision making, it really isn't easy at all.