i feel so alone right now.. I had my scan last week and all seemed okay, they actually changed my due date forward to 3 days earlier to what I had worked out.
as I was told I was 12w4days id shared the news with a few people too, then Monday I had a call from the screening team who advised I had a 1:2 DS and 1:50 of E or P. This come as a huge shock as I have a 16 month old with no issues and my results with him where 1:6800 DS and 1:47000 for E or P. I’m absolutely heartbroken as I was also told I have low Papp A 0.3 and my blood work were nearer 2+ rather than near the 1.0 they should be. I was told there was issues with babys growth and this seems conflicting when my due date was changed forward?
I was advised we can have amino for another 2/2.5 weeks which feels cruel to wait in limbo so I’ve opted for NIPT in the interim and if this comes back low risk I think we will pay for a private amino too for additional reassurance.
has anyone else had these odds? What was your decision/ outcomes? I don’t know anyone that’s been given bad results and I’m not wanting to talk to friends so I feel so lost and alone. X