I know this is an old thread but just want to share my experience. In my second pregnancy , the Michal food was over 5mm and I was told the baby wouldn’t survive birth and to have a termination. The nurses refused to do my bloods because, as they kept repeating, “there was no point”. They saw me as a doomed pregnancy. I insisted (and I never kick up a fuss) and they finally relented. They told me all the while “don’t worry, once this is over you can try again”. They wanted to book me a termination there and then.
A few days later I had a phone call from the lead nurse. She said that, amazingly, my risk of Down’s syndrome was 1 in 19 but that baby likely didn’t have Edwards or Pateus (no markers in the bloods). She was still pushing for a termination. I opted then for an amniocentesis as I just wanted a miracle.
At the amnio at 17 weeks, the consultant took one look and said “baby is fine, your previous babies probably had a fat neck at the same stage! There is nothing wrong with this baby”. She did the amnio which confirmed it, and the heart scan the following week was clear also. My beautiful girl was born and has had zero issues from this.
Please, anyone in the same boat, please try and remember that not all high nuchal fold readings mean it’s bad news. It’s a horrible position to find yourself in, but there is always hope.