Hi,
This is my first post on here but I've been driving myself a little bit crazy with worry the last few days and would be great to hear from anyone who's been in my situation.
I had my first scan a few weeks ago at 13 weeks + 4 days. At the end of the scan the sonographer told us that our NT measurement was 4mm and we were quickly taken to speak to a midwife and booked into the fetal medicine unit the following Monday.
We had another scan at our FMU appointment and the nuchal fold measurement was 3.3mm (but I was now 14 weeks so told that this too late for an NT measurement to be valid). We were given a 1:29 chance of downs syndrome.
We were offered a CVS on the day but they couldn't do it because of positioning so I had to wait two weeks for an amnio. The two weeks of waiting were awful but I managed to distract myself just about.
I had the amnio last Friday which was less scary than expected and have spent the weekend resting. They did another scan and said everything else looks normal but there is still increased fluid behind the neck (4.3mm nuchal oedema). It's been such a tough weekend and I've now convinced myself that we will get bad news. I can't stop thinking about it and crying and have got myself into a bit of a state. We should have our results by Friday though have been warned that the bank holiday may mean waiting until next Tuesday.
I feel like I've given up hope and the waiting is driving me crazy. It would be really lovely to hear from anyone who is in a similar situation or has been through this.