Hi there, I'm hoping for advice.
FTM, 29 years old. 13+3.
I'm an absolutely state and looking for some support.
At my first scan I was too gassy for them to really see the baby. They finally got a dating measurement but weren't able to do a Nuchal measurement.
A few days later, the combined blood test came back with a result of 1/115 and I was high risk for DS. I have DS in my family and it's not something I want for myself or my child. I decided to do CVS, which was meant to be yesterday, but we couldn't do it because of the baby's position. However, the consultant said my Nuchal was 0.6mm which I believe is fairly 'safe' for DS. The consultant even said - 'I wouldn't be concerned about this'. However I can't shake off my worry. I have the Amniocentesis booked for the 23rd but I just feel...numb.
I am really torn about what to do next. I feel like I can't relax and enjoy my pregnancy as I'm so frightened and worried. I feel like I can't spread the word or be truly happy. Has anyone had an NIPT and can recommend it? I can afford £400, I can take it out of savings, but I won't get the results from that until the 21st anyway and it's only a screening, not diagnostic. I would love to hear people's thoughts or experiences.