First time poster here! For the first time in my life I've recently found out I'm pregnant... And I'm absolutely bricking it. I'm in the first trimester and really not sure what to do. I found out a few weeks after my 30th. DH and I have been together for 7 years. We've talked about kids before but have grown very accustomed to the happy, fortunate life we've built for ourselves. We do lots of nice things like travelling, weekends away, eating out etc. I know it's terribly selfish but I can't imagine giving all that up for a baby. The thought of baby shopping horrifies me. If I'm completely honest I struggle with infants. I've always felt awkward around them and actually find them quite boring. DH is worse than me! I've read about women who regret having kids and women who are happy they've chosen not to. I don't want to fall into the first category but also not sure I definitely fall into the second. Is this normal??