I'm a bit worried. With ds there was a high risk of him having Downs Syndrome and I had a cvs. The hospital staff were very keen for me to go down this route and it was a very stressful and difficult time. I decided that I would keep ds whatever the diagnosis and the test showed that he did not have Downs Syndrome.
I had my 12 week scan and nuchal fold test three weeks ago for new dc and I haven't heard anything from the hospital this time. I took this to be a positive in a very difficult pregnancy. However, reading on here I realised I should have got a letter telling me the risk to dc and I have not (with the high risk last time I got a phone call).
I have rang my midwife and then the antenatal ward and after a lot of huffing and puffing it appears the lab have not recorded any result from my blood tests, hence the lack of letter as it appears I did not have the test on their system. The manager is chasing it up and promises to get back to me tomorrow but I am absolutely furious and terrified. I was so happy I didn't have to go through tests and worry this time and it might be that I still do.
I know there is nothing anyone can do and I just have to wait and see but I wanted to get it off my chest, there is only dh to speak to at the moment and he is very practical, which is not how I am feeling at the moment!