Hi all,
This is my first ever post on mumsnet, but I have been trawling the boards to see if anyone has been in the same situation as myself.
I'm 29 and have a healthy 16 month old son, currently 13.5 weeks pregnant with DC2. Almost skipped along to my 12 week scan last week at 12+5, naively thinking that it wouldn't be long until my husband and I could announce our pregnancy! We are based in Germany with the armed forces and my husband is currently away, so ended up going alone. The consultant spent a long time scanning but didn't indicate in the slightest he saw any problems - at the end of the scan he was pointing out hands/feet etc to me, and it was only when I sat down afterwards with him that he said he'd come across several problems. The NT measured 2.9mm which is >99% centile for CRL, there was a reverse A Wave in the Ductus Venosus and he also found mild Pyelectasis (swelling in kidneys). Typical German manner just set out in facts (and seemed surprised when I burst into tears - felt like I'd been punched in the stomach!) and stated that I was currently 1:10 risk for Trisomy 21 and 1:41 for Trisomys 13/18. After a horrendous evening (and arranging for my mum to fly out the next day - everyone needs their mum in these situations!) he called the next day to say my bloods were good - didn't give me any figures - and my risk has been reduced to 1:377 for T21 and 1:810 for T13/18.
I went for CVS Friday morning which genuinely was nowhere near as awful as I would have thought, and am currently in a few days of hell waiting for the results. I know my risk has been reduced a lot given my blood results, but I'm fairly sure I've read every research paper online and it seems the combination of markers at my scan doesn't give a good result. Has anyone had the same markers and what were the results?! I've come across lots of threads with people having one or the other with a good result, but not all. I know nothing will change the outcome, it's just not something I ever thought I would have to deal with! My husband and I have already decided that if our baby is diagnosed as having Downs we will be keeping him/her, especially as the consultant stated there are no major organ defects he could see so we can be assured it'll be relatively 'healthy'. This isn't to say I wouldn't be in complete shock if he calls tomorrow to say it is. Does anyone have any advice? So sorry for rambling, I just think the waiting is driving me round the bend.
Thank you!