I'm really not sure where to start.
Currently 17+5 with identical twins.
Couldn't get NT measurements due to the lateness of my scan date (thought I was 13 wks at scan, ended up at 14+5).
Hospital offered us quadruple test and mentioned that it wasn't super reliable, but would give us an indication.
Results came back today and we are classed as very high ris for the pregnancy - 1:18 (as identical twins they will either both have it or not). Hospital want to know whether we want an amniocentesis, but there is an increased risk of miscarriage with it being twins (1:50) and if I do miscarry, I'll lose both babies.
There is so little information on Downs risk in twins and I have no idea what to do or where to go.
I have looked into paying for the NIFT test, but if it's not super accurate, it's a waste of £500, as we'll still end up having to have an amniocentesis.
DH thinks we should have the amniocentesis, regardless of the miscarriage risk. I don't think I could live with myself if the babies turned out to be non-Downs and we lost them both.
I don't even know what we would do if we got a 100% positive diagnosis of Downs. I've only just got my head round having twins anyway (natural conception, no twins in family, first pregnancy, complete surprise). I'm honestly not sure if I could deal with 2 special needs babies/children (and I am totally aware of how precious and shit that sounds).
We have a consultant appointment on Thursday to discuss the options, but I really don't know what to expect or ask or anything. I'm in complete bits and have spent the whole afternoon and evening in tears, waiting for DH to get home.