I've not long found out I'm expecting for the second time, am just over 6weeks.
It's been along time since I did all this, DD is nearly 12.
Trouble is DD has an unknown genetic disorder that's neuro-degenerate- none of this was picked up during my pregnancy-despite a few iffy test results at the time, as a teenager I'm pretty sure I was dismissed through the whole process, and I certainly wasn't listened to about my concerns when she was born. As a result it wasn't until dd was at school someone finally believed there was a problem & listened to me. DD is now in a wheelchair, tube fed, struggles to talk, see, hear, at times breath. We know the outlook isn't good.
Others with children with this condition usually get picked up during pregnancy, although it tends to be in the states, I know of only 2-3 cases in the UK.
Anyway sorry to drag on, but the midwife is refusing to see me until I'm 9 weeks - despot my concerns this baby could also be effected.
As I said it's been a long time since I've done all this & it's all changed.
What kind of tests have people had? I feel utterly in the dark. So far the GP has said its a 50/50 risk.