Hi, this is my first post as I was hoping someone may have gone through as similar situation & have some advice.
At our 12 week scan a high nuchal translucency was measured (6.7mm) so were referred to Kings 3 days later for a CVS. I was rescanned and the NT measurement was now 8.8mm. Three days after the CVS we got the preliminary results back which confirmed that there was no sign of Downs, Edwards, Patau etc, but we are still waiting for our final report which will be another 1-2 weeks.
We were back at Kings yesterday for an early cardiac and anomaly scan – Everything was where it should be, the heart appeared to have 4 valves & the NT had gone down to 5.2mm, so it was as positive as it could be at this point.
However speaking to my midwife & the consultant has brought my partner and I crashing back down as they have both said that, due to the size of the NT at its highest point, there is a very slim chance of the baby being ok. The midwife even said that in her entire career she could only think of one example of a baby having had a raised NT and going on to be healthy!
We are both desperate for the baby to be ok but I’m concerned about the emotional toll that this is taking on us. We still have 1-2 weeks to get the final CVS results and another scan booked in 5 weeks. From what the consultant has said, all of the results & scans could come back perfectly but the baby could still be born with something that they didn’t pick up on.
We don’t want to give up at this point but it’s so hard carrying on & trying to be positive when the experts are telling you otherwise.
I guess I was just hoping that there may be someone here that has been through a similar situation and how they came through the other side, either good or bad – I'm trying to be positive but realistic (if such a thing exists!) I'm in the position at the moment where the only people that know are directly involved (partner, parents) which means I can’t really talk to anyone about this so I apologise for the huge rant!!