I am due an amnio on Tuesday, I will be 17 weeks gone by then, I had a high risk of 1:94 for DS. I have waited weeks for the amnio and the nearer the date is the more terrified I get. This wasn't helped when I was on the phone with the genetic counsellor and I asked how often the person that will be doing the amnio to me on Tuesday performs amnios-she said 30 a year, this to me doesn't sound very promising!? Or does it?! When I was given the high risk i was adamant that if there was a problem then I would terminate, but with the support of my husband I am not too sure now if I would terminate, unless the diagnosis would be incompatible with life. I can't live with not knowing though and not being able to enjoy the pregnancy. The question is whether I should go for the amnio or opt for the harmony test, I would gladly pay the £500 for the test in our region. Can I go to the appointment on Tuesday and get the scan and then decide not to have the amnio? Can someone please give me their stories and experiences either way please? Thanks.