Just wanted to update on this, after our appointment with Prof. Nicolades today.
When we got to the clinic, we were scanned for about an hour by 2 other doctors, who were incredibly thorough and talked through everything they were looking at and looking for, and explaining things as they found them.
After looking at all the major organs and structures, they called the Prof in, who asked us why we were here and what we wanted to know.
We said we wanted to know if this pregnancy was at all viable, and if it wasn't, if this would cause problems for any future ones.
He then scanned me himself, and said pretty much straight away that this wasn't going to be a viable pregnancy, and showed us why. Plainly, our baby is paralysed, and if born, wouldn't be able to breathe
Pretty much straight away, he named the most likely syndrome (pena shokier) but after looking more closely at the brain, he thinks it is more likely that our baby had a brain haemorrhage or stroke, which has destroyed the cerebellum part of the brain. As that is the part of the brain that controls most other things, that has meant that all normal development has been disrupted, hence all the abnormalities.
We will now be looking at having a medical termination and being screened for pena shokier to see if it is likely to happen again.
The clinic, and the professor in particular were absolutely fantastic in their approach and diagnosis, but they did also say that we had all the classic trisomy 18 markers, so they can totally see why our consultant would have thought that's what it was when she scanned us.
Thanks everyone for your support on the thread.