Hi everyone,
Another real life update here. I haven't posted on this thread before but read it all through and wouldn't have known about Harmony without Mumsnet so a huge thank you for everyone else's experiences.
I'm 10 + 6 with DC2, IVF pregnancy on our 3rd attempt and I'm now 41 so we were much more concerned than last time, when we were blissfully naive about all the risks! So having read all the info I booked into FMC for the £180 deal and we took the train down yesterday.
They were great, we were a bit late which they were lovely about, and the scan was really reassuring as she spent ages checking as much as she could for this stage of pregnancy. But, unfortunately for us, they weren't able to continue with the Harmony test because she found what was possibly a second sac.
She couldn't be 100% sure, it may just be a small blood clot, but it's possible it's a sac left over from a "vanishing twin" (lovely phrase!). We had 2 embryos transferred with our treatment, so there's a chance that one didn't make it but has left some chromosomal material in this sac. So my blood sample may show abnormal chromosomes which are related to that sac and give a false positive. Because of the risk of this the doctor was unwilling to do the Harmony test.
We're quite disappointed but really appreciated her honesty. We agreed to go back in 2 weeks for the 12 week scan and bloods anyway, as that will give a better indicator than the NHS scan (which doesn't check for all the same things). However, we've now decided that it's not worth the day off work for us both and trip to London so we're going to a local private clinic for the 12 week scan instead.
And a big thumbs up to FMC, I've just phoned them to cancel our next appointment and asked how much we owe them for yesterday, and they said we don't have to pay anything! So that's a bonus, we effectively got a really reassuring 10 week scan for free (always looking on the bright side!).
So whilst my experience hasn't quite worked out, I wouldn't hesitate to recommend FMC, they obviously have the interests of their patients absolutely at the forefront of what they're doing.
On another note, we pre-booked our train tickets for the 12 week scan and now can't get a refund. I'll start a new thread but if anyone can use 2 returns from Birmingham International to London Euston on 6th August then let me know!