Hi. My daughter was diagnosed with complex congenital heart defects at her 20 week scan. She also had a undersized right ventricle with transposition of the great arteries, plus an undeveloped pulmonary artery, double outlet right ventricle, a VSD and additionally a 'criss cross' heart. It's a pretty unique set of defects but still essentially a single ventricle condition.
We were given the same options as Manitz, i.e the 3 stage repair, which would take 3 years to complete and would hopefully see her through to 10 but she'd then have heart failure in her teens and we could expect to lose her at that point. But that was the best case scenario. We could have lost her at any point, the consultant described her as a 'time bomb'. Heart transplant wasn't really mentioned to us, I think for the reasons Manitz said.
We made the devastating decision to terminate my pregnancy. I didn't think it was fair on my beautiful girl to live a short, restricted life or for her sister to lose her little sibling. This was 3 weeks ago and we are absolutely devastated. It's the ultimate lose lose situation, I'm sad to say. In my head I know I made the right decision for my little one but my heart aches for her.
I'm sorry this isn't a more balanced view; there are lots of children out there doing well with single ventricle circulations and hopefully there will be someone along shortly who'll be able to share a more positive experience. I suppose though the cruel fact is that it's a life limiting condition.
Please do call and speak to www.lhm.org.uk/ They were an amazing source of support and information for me. This is so tough for you as a mother and a grandma. My husband is from NZ and I know how hard the distance is.
Thinking of you all.