I was given 1 in 60 by my local hospital, so I went to the Fetal Medicine Centre to get a second opinion - also because they do a seriously detailed ultrasound (who knew there was so much to look at at 12 weeks?) which I don't think most NHS hospitals do at this stage.
Although the ultrasound came back completely clear, I was somewhat put out that they quoted me 1 in 34!! Not the improvement most people have after going to the FMC! I have no idea why this is - it could be anything to do with different formulas used, one place weighed me with my coat on and the other took off a few lbs for my clothes.. who knows? In fact my bloodwork even looked better at the FMC - higher PAPP-A and lower bHCG. It's nuts. Plus that online calculator gives me 1 in 140 or something. So me and risk factors don't get on so well and in my opinion are not as precise as they initially appear to be.
At 19 weeks I had my anomaly scan there and they saw nothing wrong and unofficially lowered my risk to 1 in 70. The professor himself said unofficially "Pah, there is nothing wrong with your baby!! Stop worrying about it!" but did of course officially issue the disclaimer that we can't know that for certain.
On Monday at 31w6d I am going to an amnio appointment at Kings College but I don't know yet if I will go through with it. If I do go ahead, I will theoretically (subject to bureaucratic error..) find out two to three days later. It has been horrendous waiting it out and has caused a lot of issues emotionally and in other ways. It's not so much the fear he has Down syndrome (although of course that factors into it too) it's more the not knowing either way.
If I don't do the amnio, it's down to waiting until the baby is born - no later than 38w2d as that is my scheduled c-section date but I am suspecting he will come earlier as none of my babies have reached 37 weeks yet!
I'm 34, will be almost 35 when this one is born so my age is starting to become a factor too. I have seen women with similar numbers to me just a few years older with 1 in 10, and women in their 20s with risk factors in the hundreds.
Pregnancy is all about the waiting, isn't it?! Drives me spare. I am somebody who likes to be in control and know all the facts. If it wasn't for my fear of invasive testing and losing the baby (although as mentioned on the other thread, for your odds I'd do the amnio) I would have known months ago with a CVS. Some people can just relax and say what will be will be, but I'm not one of them! I have no patience either.
Good luck on hearing about the job stuff - can't imagine that on top of everything else! Never rains etc..